Being a Good Listener?
By gengeni
@gengeni (3308)
Indonesia
December 25, 2010 10:56am CST
we always hear, but not many of us are "listening"
We are also a lot to see, but not always "pay attention"
Often we are reminded to manjadi "good listener".
Teach me about this: Being a good listener.
Is it just a polite attitude to not interrupt.
Would not that indicate a passive stance on an issue.
Or a philosophy that relies on understanding the dynamic of looking at a problem.
Or maybe ....?
Help me understand this
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4 responses
@manbir84 (134)
• India
27 Dec 10
It is not a philosophy and all that thing rther than it is just a concentration of mind.if we listen carefully then it will prove very useful for us.It requires meditation daily.This meditation also brings mental peace which you will feel good.Your listening will improve by this activity.To become a good learner you must have a quality of good listener.For example we are eating food daily but if our eaten food is not converted into blood by out lever then our eaten food get waste.Similarly if we only listen but not absorb it then it will prove useless.I guess you understand what I trying to say.
@celticeagle (166976)
• Boise, Idaho
27 Dec 10
Listening is very important. Interupting is understandable but very rude. Interupting means you aren't listening and that is never good. I just happened to have written a very good article on listening that I will share with you. It has some very good ideas in it. Here is the link:
http://www.ehow.com/how_4697056_listen.html
@clocks123 (1225)
• United States
25 Dec 10
i think that i usually want to get my point across that i don't listen. i think we have to learn to listen more to people. it has to be a before thought process to do this. we have alot to say, but we don't want to listen as much as we should.
@dhyker (30)
• Indonesia
25 Dec 10
being a wmoen who appreciating your time... and appreciating everything
