love hurts...

it hurts because somebody rejected you it it vanishes when time passes

When somebody you feel so strongly for leaves you and ends the relationship it truely does hurt. It can be such a hard thing to accept and you want to understand why, and what went wrong, what could you have done differently. Well for me it does hurt, i do show my feelings, i like to get involved with someone because i think the relationship will go somewhere and will last, and it is heartbreaking when it doesn't. I have bottled up my feelings before and that is not a good thing. Best to let everything out but to realise things happen for a reason and life moves on, maybe in time you will find the perfect partner.

if you really love with someone, you can really fine a ways that why he/she left you. another way, inhale and exhale and relax. maybe there's a reason that he/she left in that way.

hello asliah! LOVE in its truest sense does not hurt, but the person we chose to love hurts us. when you have come to love a person truly and that person will betray your trust, break your heart or leave you, it would surely hurt you deeply no matter how much you try to deny the feeling. If you want to move on with your life you have to be true to yourself, you have to admit the hurt and recognize what caused it. Howe ver, after giving yourself enough time to mourn for the hurt, you let the hurt go and face a new chapter in your life with vigor and renewed enthusiasm. You will not let the hurt caused by the one you love to deny you the beauty of life, of what life has to offer you still.This is how i dealt with my broken heart and the betrayal of a love, i thought would last a lifetime. i choose to express my hurt and i gave myself time to mourn and heal. Now, i am facing life with the hope that life has so much to offer me still. I know, i won't have reassurance that my new love won't hurt me or his betrayal and desertion will not once again break my heart. But that's life, you have to take risks in order to reap the fruits of life. you have to be true to yourself and to the world around you in order to live fully. Hiding your hurt and pretending you're not hurting will gain you nothing. i hope i have shared something worthwhile with you. Merry christmas and a prosperous new 2011 to you!

Hi there asliah!!I think if ever I will be broken hearted I'll try to control my emotions and just live my life normally.I can't let my whole life be ruin by just a broken heart.What broken hearted people must do is to find a way to be more successful in life and change anything about themselves that leads them to being broken hearted so that if there is a next time for them to love they will never be broken hearted again...

Of course it is not easy to move on. But we have to. You should have to focus on other things that you enjoy doing. Make your time productive so that you can easily move on. Socialize with other people. Who knows maybe you could find a better one that will naturally come to you.

Broken heart is just like a dad man. It will really affect my feelings, mood and thinking. I may start ignoring such a person who leaves my heart broken. I really would not have anything for that person left behind.

A broken heart or the leaving of someone for a purpose hurts, that's right. But it's up to you (or to the particular person in each case) how much it hurts to you or you allow to your heart to suffer from. I rather prefer to live the present thinking in the future. What I mean is that live is going on and if it already happened (even if it was yesterday or two hours ago) it belongs already to the past so I have to look for another purpose and question me what I want to do now with my live instead of falling in a depression or something worse. Time cures all wounds, even a broken heart. Let thinks happened in the passed and live the present looking foreward. It might sounds easier than it is but everybody is able to overcome a problem or pain. It's not necessary to control the feelings. If you need to cry during a while so do it, but after go on.

First, I would like to say, true love cannot hurt at all. If anybody gets hurt then it only means you were wanting something from that relationship. Even it can be just happiness but true love is unconditional.

Hi asliah! They say when you are hurt,you are capable of loving so cheer up,not all are capable of it,not all has someone to love to. Let your feelings out asliah,sometimes when you hide it,it gets heavier. The more you hide it,the more your heart will explode. It also helps when you confide it with a friend. Socialize,meet new girls/guys. And the best thing is to pray,pray that in time you will able to heal your broken heart. See you around friend!

@ asliah, Broken heart is not easy to heal, but it is better to be true to yourself express what you really feel no need to hide it becoz it will hurt you more. Try to act normal besides when someone left you someone better will come along :) spend more time with your family, have fun with your best buddy and give yourself a treat :) have a nice day!

i have just very recent had my heart broken and still is. i always new he didnt love me like i loved him blah! i havnt been dealing with it to well at all. i have just locked myself away and turned off the fone just the internet to chat on (much safer cant get online)i am just holding old til the new year and hope its better for me! but i think i am done with men so i am staying single cos at least i wont get hurt like this again cos its destroyed me

My heart has been broken a few times, but the best you can do is to move on. Take the experiance as a learning and try to find someone who love you for you. Not what you have, because it wont last trust.