Is Spying on our own spouse morally right

It's depends on the situation, spying the people is moral only when you have proper reason for it. Source:-

it would depend on the couple as for me I don't see the need to spy on my husband and he doesn't need to spy on me I do worry about things that he said about me only because most of the time he doesn't understand what I am trying to say and do but that's no reason to spy on each other LOL I just have to straighten out misunderstandings if necessary I do think his spending has to be controlled and that's why I look at our statement regularly but since he is the breadwinner I can't really put a stop on his spending, can I?

i think everyone are worth having their privacy, and spying violates others' privacy. Therefore, i do not think it is a good idea.

Confidentiality in a marriage is not only a right by law, but it is also an significant aspect of a successful marriage. If you've reached a point of believing you have to spy on your spouse, is there sufficient love and trust left in your marriage for it to survive?

Well i don't think that spying on your own spouse it right. Doing this means that you are doubting your spouse and not having any faith into her/him. And if your spouse come to know about this then he/she may feel very bad and it can break your realationship completely. So its better to ask your partnes face to face what you want to ask. Happy mylotting. Regards, harry.

Is it morally right? No depending on whom you talk to. But as I've been cheated on by my husband I have absolutely no qualms with randomly checking in on his emails and such. Am I wrong for doing this? Yes and no. Yes because I should be able to trust him. And No because that trust has already been betrayed. I've chosen to stay and my husband knows that I will without telling him check up on him. He's agreed to it to save our marriage. Is this the best way to live? Probably not. However, despite his faults and short comings I still love him. I always will. And Given certain situations I see no problem with one spying on the other. Nor do I see any real problem with randomly checking in on your children. One needs to do things like that unfortunately. Will the child be offended? Of course. But its better than having to pick up one's child from jail because you didn't know they were organizing illegal activities online or otherwise. This is just my personal opinion. I fully realize not everyone is going to agree with me but isn't that the point of this site? To explore other's opinions?

When a relationship like marrige is forged between two people they take wows to be together in thick or thin, to love each other, to support each other in times of distress and to always be faithful to each other.Generally most partners trust each other and have no problem with each other.When there is complete trust between the two then the marriage functions properly and there is absolutely no reason for any spying to be done.However sometimes it so happens, and it is seen to happen more frequently these days, that one partner because of certain reasons starts to distrust his or her partner and hires private detectives to see what is going on.Mostly people don`t do it and instead confront their partners directly which leads to angry fights between the two and sometimes leads to murder even. Again it also results in bad blood between the two and could wreck the marriage forever.To avoid this situation, one partner spies on the other without his or her knowledge so that if he/she is found to be innocent, then the matter gets closed and they can carry on their lives without any fear.One should not spy on the other for nothing as it can create trouble bu they should be mature and have complete trust and understanding between each other.

No. It's a violation of the person's privacy. It's disrespectful and shows a lack in trust. Relationships are built on trust. If there's no trust, the relationship can't be successful.

I am not talking about all and every time,as a parent and spouse we should keep our one eye on our children and spouse. No one is trust worthy in this world, especially boys.