My sister just left without saying goodbye
By saizo6
@saizo6 (2199)
United States
December 27, 2010 6:51am CST
I am really sad and disappointed right now. My sister decided that she was going to leave home to live with her boyfriend across the country. This was unexpected news for our family. None of us even knew that she was planning to leave. The sad thing was that I had to hear about this from someone else. She didn't even tell us until the day she was leaving which was yesterday. That made me so disappointed. And just moments ago she left without telling any of us goodbye. The only reason we knew was because our dog started barking like crazy and when we came to check she was gone. Now that I'm thinking about it not only am I sad but I'm kind of angry at her too.
7 responses
@zaga_cleuth (1407)
• Philippines
27 Dec 10
Don't create angry thoughts on your mind you're just toxicating your mind. It is better to look at the brighter side of everything. Maybe, she has a big reason why she did that. Whatever it is, just pray for her guidance from the Lord.
There's no better way t help but to pray for her.
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@saizo6 (2199)
• United States
27 Dec 10
I'm over being angry since it did keep me up all night. But I can't help but worry about her. She's never even met this boyfriend of hers face to face and we don't really know anything about him. I don't even know how they ended up hooking up. I do hope that everything works out for her in the end.
@zaga_cleuth (1407)
• Philippines
28 Dec 10
That's why it is better to pray for her safety and her guidance.
@juneebubby (79)
• Philippines
28 Dec 10
i think you have to lessen your feelings of sadness and anger. Harboring negative feelings will only make things worse. If ever you need to do some thinking, let it be thoughts of possible reasons she left. Maybe, if she thinks this is what's best for her, then let her be. If my sister left home without ever saying goodbye, I would probably feel angry and sad first, just like how you feel. But, this sadness and anger shouldn't linger. This will all pass. I'm not saying it's a fast process, but someday this will all be resolved. Always remember, there's sunshine after the rain.
@saizo6 (2199)
• United States
28 Dec 10
I'm not blaming her or anything like that. I just wish that she would have talked to me about this. I was completely lost and didn't have any idea what was going on. Makes it hard when people ask me what happened since I had no clue to begin with. It kind of made me look like an uncaring sister or something.
@lady1993 (27224)
• Philippines
17 Jan 11
That is really an unreasonable thing for her to do. You are her family and she didn't even have the guts to say that she was leaving?.. 
They aren't even married yet, and it's not sure that they'd end up together, she may just go home broken hearted or even pregnant.. 
She could have at least said goodbye or wrote a letter..
They aren't even married yet, and it's not sure that they'd end up together, she may just go home broken hearted or even pregnant.. She could have at least said goodbye or wrote a letter.. 
@comment289 (63)
• Philippines
1 Jan 11
I agree, time and space may be the only things that can heal her wounds and sorrow right now. Leaving your loved ones is a sad and emotionally cruel option for both sides but I believe your sister wouldn't leave without any serious reasons. She has her reasons and they may be unreasonable to you at the moment but to her, having time away means everything. Also, saying goodbye might be too hurtful and sad and so she just opted to leave without saying anything.
@phoenix3423 (135)
• United States
2 Jan 11
Oh my goodness I can understand your sadness and anger. Sounds just like something my sister would do. I am so sorry she felt the need to 'sneak' out without saying goodbye! Maybe she was having a hard time saying it and could not bring herself to face you. I hope she did not do it to be selfish but because she was hurting and did not know how to say goodbye. I hope she has a safe journey and I hope you both can figure it out.
