do you like what you see when you look in the mirror?? or not????
By ren1982
@ren1982 (341)
December 27, 2010 7:31am CST
when i look in the mirror i think i see something that no one else seems to. i dont think i am ugly but i am not beautiful just average looking (with tattoos) but also when i look in the mirror i see myself being bigger then what i really am and i know i am not that big cos i have worked hard over the last 3 years to get in shape and stay in shape! and know that all my old clothes dont fit me now all to big and when i buy new clothes i buy them in a smaller size but yet when i look at myself i still see the old me looking back..... will i ever be happy with the way i look i wonder?
so how about you? are you happy with your self? do you like what looks back at you in the mirror?
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8 responses
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
27 Dec 10
I am happy with the way I look. When I look in the mirror I see some newly develop muscles that weren't there a few years back. But since a start pumping a bit of weights and I ain't that skinny anymore I start to feel more confidence in myself. Then my confidence is max more when I hear girls saying that I'm cute even though I usually deny it around them. When I look in the mirror I see a body and face that no girl can resist. I'm not full of myself because when I am around people I usually talk down on myself because I don't have anything to prove and because I don't like to boast.
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
27 Dec 10
Ren1982 I can't see your pic well because I'm using my phone now but from what I can make out, you look great. But I can understand that stress sometimes can lowers ones self esteem. I hope you don't do anything too stressful to mess up your life. You can die from those things.
@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
28 Dec 10
My problem is that I look different in every mirror! I swear... I think I look okay at home, and then get in the car, look in the vanity mirror and it looks like I have caked all the makeup I have on my face! I look in my bedroom long mirror and think I look fine, then at the store, pass a full length mirror and look and I cringe as I look so sloppy or junky! I even looked in the mirror at a doctors office recently and my hair looked grey, not the light blonde I have it streaked with. I give up!
@ren1982 (341)
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28 Dec 10
LOL love your post!!! same for me! weird isnt it! i have a few mirrors at mine and i go from one room to the next looking at myself in them and just checking everything. but i do find that i look the best in a mirror in a shop changing room dunno why but i go try something on look in there mirror and think yea i like i then get home put it on look in the mirror and think what i have just wasted money on!
@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
30 Dec 10
I know. My daughter says same thing I say and then said..take a hand mirror to the window and see how you look. Okay, yeah, that works and I see but I can't stand there with a mirror in my hand applying makeup at the window! And back and forth..I'd be so exhausted, i wouldn't care what I look like when done anyway! Guess we just have to do the best we can and hope people don't look to close!
@cream97 (29085)
• United States
6 Jun 11
Hi. ren1982. I can tell you right now that you don't look big at all. You look very skinny. That is how I see myself in the mirror at times too. I will see a bigger person than I am. Then when I look in another mirror, I look smaller than what I have seen before. It really confuses me because I am thinking that I am actually bigger. But I am not. Mirrors can be very tricky! When I don't look in a mirror, I look smaller. I think that I will just base how I look from now on, by my own personal judgment instead of looking in the mirror.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
30 Dec 10
Hello ren1982.
First off, if that's how you look after working out and getting in shape, then congratulations! You look great!
When I do look at myself at the mirror, I still see the old me. The version of me 20 or so years ago, when I was really healthy, and really buff. Because then I also worked out a lot. And then after a moment, I realize that I have a long way to get back to my old self.
@laniekins (4579)
• Philippines
6 Jan 11
Honestly I wish I am prettier like others. I am lacking in beautiful skin and body. Sometimes I look pretty, just for my self, I don't know if others agree and there are times I look ugly in my eyes. But we cannot change what we are this is God's given to us, we just enhance it.
@Pyroo8 (121)
• United States
27 Dec 10
lolololololo girl you look like you are maybe 100 pounds.....i think your mirror is broke and get a new one or just look throw my eyes because you are very pretty hun foreal..... a st8 diamond if u every feel fat or not sexy hit me up ill tell u how fine your are every hour of every day hola
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
28 Dec 10
Hi ren,
The one you look on the glass or mirror is you and none but you. Unless there is any problem with the mirror it should not reflect things as it pleases.lol
Think you are beautiful and you are. I have never considered myself bad looking . Rather I have a good opinion on myself that I can attract people. It could be anything in my nature. Be it look or the way I talk or anything.
Satisfaction is the key to your happiness.
@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
28 Dec 10
I'm happy with myself. I like the way i look in the mirror, but i know i can be better because we are women after all. It's our natural instinct, wanting to look even better when we are already in our best condition. We can never of things when it comes to beauty and shapes. MY bf thinks i'm already sexy enough and if i were to go further, he's going to feel insecure.
