Can the end be happy? between father and son ....?
By gengeni
@gengeni (3308)
Indonesia
December 27, 2010 12:37pm CST
I have a problem that does no end with my father.
always fight and make trouble, hurt each other, and no one had ever said that a true apology ..
once again I made him sad because it has made him hate me.
and I can only apologize with regret and sorrow keep crying
since the bankruptcy of his business and the accident that I experienced with him to cause loss of life ... I never again can feel like a child ...
Could it all end?
due to speak to him just a useless thing that ends with anger ... and emotion.
abuse / abusive words that ... psychological damage.
I'm so Tired and always made to feel guilty ...
because it hurt the feelings of parents is a big sin
even though he was among those who are selfish and annoying,,,??!!!
2 responses
@kendedes2011 (2712)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 10
You really complex problem! I can help you in the condition you are in trouble with the cpc you, but if it turns out you also feel troubled father to you. Well ... it really heavy.
Actually there is a way to make you finish the problem. Lots and easy but the MOST DIFFICULT in case you is that YOU BOTH must both have the desire to improve themselves. I see you've got the desire that way, but I do not know whether the father you also have the same desire or not. Even if it turns out cpc you have the same thing, whether his ego as parents can accept that he was emotionally ill? Sorry may be painful, but I see the reality that you told above.
@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 10
seemed too difficult to impose our desire to start a mutual desire to receive an error, I do not know what else to do. like a house without a roof, a father without responsibility. Maybe someday he could accept me and forgive me, so I will always accept him as my father as long as he do me good, but when ..?
