Women, why do you tell your sons to treat women with respect yet you sleep...

Men, why do you tell your sons to treat women with respect, yet you abuse your own wife! I see it all the time.

I'm not a woman like this but I find that men and women should treat each other respect whether they are in a relationship or not. There's no reason a man should bend over backwards to make the woman of his life comfortable in all means while being treated like an abused puppy. He should stand up when he is wronged but that doesn't mean he has any right to physically or mentally abuse his other half, the same thing is with women. There is a fine line between being taken advantaged of and being a complete jerk.

Not all women are like this but I can vouch that I as a woman has questioned this in many of the ones I do know. Many times I say well you lead by example so why does it surprise you that your son is disrespectful. I certainly have lead by total example and am proud to say that as a single parent my son respect me and women and will never forgive that his father was who he was and glad he no longer has him in his life. In fact my son says can you mom imagine what life would have been like had you not decided to divorce him. So you see my son was exposed at a very young age all the bad things of what his father was like, and me thinking that my son would think this would be normal I had to let go. I devoted my entire life to my children with absolutely no regrets as I have two wonderful and respectful recent college graduates. But my question I guess to men who are like this is why on earth do you behave in this manner as I do not care what your childhood was like, as believe me living in the foster system like I did since birth, certainly I was exposed to the worst most imagineable types of people, however I am not disrespectful and know the difference right from wrong. So I find no excuses that perhaps come out of others mouths when they say the had a bad and or dysfunctional family. I was never taught anything I lead by complete example.