Each Major Religion Claims That it Has a Purpose~To Reach Out & Help Its Fellow

@Adoniah (7513)
United States
December 27, 2010 3:25pm CST
Man. So, why do so many people live bereft in loveless, friendless vacuums; no families or friends to turn to when they are sad or need someone to talk to? Why are there so many suicides in this world? Where are all these wonderful caring religious folks? They claim that they are walking in the paths of their great teachers...Jesus, mohammed, Buddha, Gandhi, etc. Why, if their teachers preached such kindness and goodness and caring are they not out there reaching out to the sad and downtrodden instead of killing each other. I am disgusted with all religious factions. They are and always have been the root of the problem. Instead of reaching out and helping no matter what a person stood for. First you have to convert to their belief and then they may take care of you. We are still not a civilized world and it does not look like we will ever get there. We will destroy our world and ourselves long before we get there.
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@urbandekay (18278)
1 Jan 11
Aye, the dove will be caught and bought and sold again all the best urban
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@Adoniah (7513)
• United States
1 Jan 11
Interesting...
@joerhonda (476)
• United States
28 Dec 10
Adoniah...I agree with you. The churches have fallen way short. It amazes me how they can travel thousands of miles to help people in other countries, but turn their backs on their own community and people. I'm not opposed to helping other people in other countries, but I am a firm believer that you take care of your own FIRST! I myself am a Christian, but of no formed religion. (Non Denominational) I don't believe that you need to belong to a church in order to praise God and learn his word. I see no reason why an Citizen of the United States should ever be homeless. This is one of the places the churches need to stand up! I do realize there are some who choose to live like that and are of sound mind. That's their choice and that's fine. There are 1,000's if not 100's of 1,000's of homeless and starving people that don't choose to be in that position! There are some good and civilized people in the world and it is up to us as individuals to love and help those we can. If just one person would reach out and help one person or family, imagine the impact that would have.
@Adoniah (7513)
• United States
29 Dec 10
I was mostly thinking of the homebound elderly. At least you acceed to a need. Shalom~Adoniah
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
28 Dec 10
Why do you ignore everyone that are doing things to help others, only focusing on those who don't? Yes, it would be a much better world if everyone who claims to follow their religion actually did, but it would also be a much better world if people didn't always focus on the negative.
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@bird123 (10643)
• United States
28 Dec 10
How can I argue with so much of what you say?? I can't. There is one part. We will not destroy ourselves. The world is getting better everyday. World intelligence is also on the increase. Knowledge will solve all problems, however the journey to wisdom will always be a struggle. Don't give up just yet. God is teaching His children. Some must take the rough road to learn. It doesn't make sense, but so often is true. For those of us who must watch, it is a reminder of what the right answers really are.
@Adoniah (7513)
• United States
29 Dec 10
You must be very young...The world is getting worse not better and will continue to get worse. It is more because our moral code is deteriorating than anything else. I agree...What are the right answers? Mine are different than your apparently. To me all human life is precious.
@GDTimothy (446)
• United States
28 Dec 10
Let's face it: caring about our friends, family, neighbors, or even needy people in another country does not arise out of religion. The roots of "caring" and empathy for our fellow man go far back before anyone ever heard of religion. I mean, come on, there for many, many examples of animals caring for and attempting to nourish other completely different species. Altruism has been shown time and again to have biological roots deep in evolutionary history. There's just no need for religion in order to care about your fellow man. In fact, it would seem that an atheist who shows compassion for his fellow man is an example of the truest form of caring since his/her motivation is not influenced by any religion. My hypothesis is that humanity will only reach the goodness and compassion often attributed to religious teachings when and only when it divests itself of religion altogether.
@Fire10 (293)
• United States
28 Dec 10
Interesting thoughts for sure. I can understand where you're coming from - I see a lot of bitterness, judgment, and selfish condescension in people of many faiths... including my own. I would suggest to you that some people - with certain beliefs or habits - may not be as capable of being helped. Some people are like a bucket without any bottom - you can throw in some help - which temporarily satisfies them - but that help falls right through... hehe... because they shouldn't legally be entrusted to themselves :). I know with my circumstances that I have a limited ability to reach out to those outside my family because I spend so much time nourishing them (or making sure that they become buckets with a bottom). With this limited time and resources should I throw 'help' into the bottomless bucket or should I direct people to 'grow' a bottom to their bucket so that they can help themselves. I suggest that for a strong majority of people who claim they are in need of help - the best way to help them is to help them change their way of life and make them more self-sufficient. I also suggest that this is why in some instances people of faith share their faith first. So there are many people who want help during times of poverty, suffering, and sorrow. But fewer people who want real help - the help to change themselves in such away as to prevent such poverty, suffering, and sorrow. People prefer to have money to meet their needs without budgeting, smoking without lung cancer, and immoral living without heartache. There are enough of these problems when people are living healthily and as God commands them - but it is also true that fewer people would inflict such pain if they lived as God commands them. I am willing to help anyone, any stranger, any one who may have made mistakes, but my time is limited - so I will divert and exhaust my resources to help those who are really willing to be helped. A bit of a tangent there, but to get back on track... lasting change requires real motivation - and I haven't found anything that is a greater motivator than a sure knowledge and experience that God is, that He loves us, and that everything we do here on earth has infinite importance. Such knowledge and experience brings confidence and purpose which allow people to make necessary changes in their lives - and gives them the discipline to follow good advice despite difficult circumstances. A gift like that will change the course of not only that individual's life, but will also help them put all of their children on a course of lasting happiness and ensure a future of prosperity for the whole human family. :) but some people prefer to do what 'they want' and - within a limited range - they are entitled to do just that. I know I didn't fully answer the question, but I thought a different perspective may be interesting to you. Thanks for reading, Fire10
• United States
28 Dec 10
I'm sorry that you cannot find a greater motivation than your belief in God. To me that simply means that you have not truly searched yourself or critically analyzed your motivation. After all, if one has to rely on religion for motivation, then they are lost before they begin. It means that they cannot find the good things within them that exist regardless of their religion. It means that you must attribute your motivations and good intentions to your religion. I however, have no such restriction and have every bit of the motivation that religious folks think they have! And when one can only attribute their motivation to themselves and only themselves, without regard to religion, then that is far superior to any "artificial" motivation produced by religion. So if religion is your source for doing good, thinking good things, and having compassion, then you would be lost without religion. But I can suffer no such loss since I do not rely on religion for the source of my motivation. I don't use it as a moral crutch. Besides, which religion do you think is the best motivator? Which of the dozens, if not hundreds, of gods believed in by the peoples of the Earth is the real one? Eh? Which one is the real motivator? And do all the others represent false motivation?? Does it matter if you believe in the Christian god, or the Jewish god, or the Islamic god, or the Buddha?
@Fire10 (293)
• United States
28 Dec 10
Again, thanks for reading - I have a tendency to post marathon answers and I appreciate you taking the time to read my point of view on the subject. Yeah, it is a different perspective than yours. But I also don't want you to miss some of the bigger points of what I said. I said that I haven't found anything that is a greater motivator than a sure knowledge and experience that God is, that He loves us.... I am not suggestion that a contrived or forced belief is my greatest motivator - and forced belief appears to be what you addressed in your reply. Also, in saying that I have found no greater motivator than a sure knowledge, I don't know why you appear to have assumed that it is my only motivator. I own my motivations and attribute them to nobody but myself - they are an extension of who I am and who I choose to be as a consequence of what I know (to some extent isn't every decision/motivation based on what we know?). There is nothing artificial about letting everything I know bear influence on who I choose to be. Yes I would be lost without religion and a knowledge of God - but I'd still be a good person and glad to help others. True religion is as much a crutch to a man or woman of God as education and experience is a crutch to an MD. In terms of your last questions - I believe that finding the answer to them is the responsibility of every person born into this world and I believe that telling you my opinion wouldn't help anybody in any way. But I do frequently make the distinction of true religion, it is important to find - I believe that sincerity is huge - because I think that there are many who buy into a 'culture of religion' and a way of life without investing themselves. I believe that if people are sincere in their search to know God, they will - with time and dedication - come to one conclusion. Anyway, thanks again for your reply - we all come from different backgrounds and experience and there is nothing wrong with disagreement. And if we disagree, that is fine, but let us make sure that we disagree with the other person's true position. I think life is more about how we handle those differences :)
• Indonesia
28 Dec 10
Religion is not the root of the problem, which is the root is human beings themselves, in fact religion has been set up how we live,govern how we try,hanging out in the community etc.