This marriage failed just because they do not have children ???
By RONDOLAWE
@RONDOLAWE (774)
Indonesia
December 28, 2010 1:57am CST
he asked me to distance herself from her husband for always being angry and hit her in when they are discussing about marriage that has been devastated by her husband expect their children to and it turns out his wife was not able to provide for her husband and their offspring fighting just because his wife wanted to adopt a child from the husband married again but her husband did not want, that's the staple of their problems and really felt sorry for her that will be made in her husband's first wife and ask for blessing to remarry the wife even behind the curse and there were beatings and the wife does not want to report to the police because he was aware he is useless to be a mother , what about this one ???
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12 responses
@freymind (1351)
• Philippines
5 Jan 11
I am saddened for the woman since its very hard not to conceive even if you really wanted to and she is very unfortunate to have husband like that.
I asked my fiancée about this if it will bother him if in case in the future we will not conceive a child he said that he didn't love me in the first just to make me a breeding facility.
He said that although he wants to have kids in the future, it will not affect how much he loves me when I no longer be able to conceive (just in case)
The husband is pathetic and should rot in hell. Having kids for him is just a foolish excuse of him wanting to breed. I just hope that karma will go down on him very fast.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
29 Dec 10
It's frustrating if the wife can't provide children but he doesn't have the right to hurt her physically. She should file a divorce immediately and look for someone else who understands.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
29 Dec 10
It's frustrating if the wife can't provide children but he doesn't have the right to hurt her physically. She should file a divorce immediately and look for someone else who understands.
@cloud31 (5809)
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29 Dec 10
I am not convince that having no children is the cause of unsuccessful marriage.Its about the couple to compromise with this matter.If the man just marry the woman to the extent of bearing child its a very unreasonable reason.
In my point of view love and marriage is an acceptance of all matters between you and partner.
Happy myLotting!!
@titchy1231 (732)
•
29 Dec 10
well i would just get out of the relationship wether he was hitting or not
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
28 Dec 10
There gas to be more to a marital relationship than just having children. You can't blame a failed marriage on not having children. There has to be more going for the relationship than that.
@madteaparty (2748)
• Japan
29 Dec 10
This is very sad and I see that she's suffering a lot. The marriage failed because that husband is a very cruel person, and has nothing to do with kids. If they had a kid, that man would find another excuse to beat her, and maybe would beat even the kids.
I don't understand how something as horrible as domestic violence exists. What can make someone believe they can treat their wives (or husbands in the case of being the wife the violent one) like trash?
@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
28 Dec 10
The marriage failed because the husband and the spouse were both immature. Wife beating, husband beating (YES, I know of actual cases of a husband being battered by the wife) or hurting your partner is a sign of immaturity. And the wife's reasoning that she is useless just because she is not fertile is also immature and self-deprecating.
Not having children is a common problem among married couples, but it is not a reason for the marriage to fail, it is a reason for the couple to work on their relationship.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
28 Dec 10
hmmm...i think there was already lack of love, there are couples, i know it's not healthy but can even survive and stay together after a cheating, let along not having children...and those who want children so much but can't certainly can adopt so...i think they didn't love each other
@Lance26 (956)
• Philippines
28 Dec 10
If the husband marries his wife because he just wanted a child o\rather than love and money then it could be the sole factor why marriage fails. On the other hand, couple who vowed and tied the knot of the holy matrimony in the spirit of love must be strong enough to face this hardship.
I must say adding a number to a couple makes it a family. So it's really hard in the part of the husband knowing his wife is incapable of bearing a baby. But in the presence of love above anything else he wouldn't able to view this shortcomings as a point of giving up the marriage yet a challenge to their solidarity as couple.
@cutyonhahp1987 (5)
• Vietnam
29 Dec 10
why do they have baby , i think they don't want it or , they have problem for health
