Cooking at Christmas traditions!

@oldchem1 (8132)
December 28, 2010 5:43am CST
Well after all the worry, work and money Christmas is over for yet another year - I do hope that you all had a wonderful time! One of the things I love about Christmas is the preparation - especially food wise. Ever since my kids were small we had traditions regarding the food preparation on Christmas Eve,; my third eldest daughter was always keen to get up early and to help me with the cooking in the kitchen. That daughter is now 34 (it's her birthday today actually) and now it is her 5 year old daughter who helps her in the kitchen on Christmas Eve. This is a picture of Becky about to make the gingerbread men this Christmas Eve. Do your kids help you with your Christmas cooking?
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@marguicha (223297)
• Chile
28 Dec 10
Your grandaughter is a beautiful and cute little cook!!! I am so glad you posted the picture as I thought I would not get to see it. At this time of my life my kids do all the cooking. We get together one year at my elderst home, the other year at my youngest. This year celebration was a litlle smaller because only my youngest daughter was in town. I will have a sort of late Christmas with the other part of the family when they come back from vacations. I hope they will be OK as they are adventurous and went to the Bolivian jungle. They promised to hire a guide and they had all kinds of shots for tropical fevers though. I taught my children how to cook and even my grandsons are wonderful at it. I´m sure that when they are back, my very own Indiana Jones´ will do a big barbecue and have their presents at last. Our Christmas is in Summer so all this can be done.
@marguicha (223297)
• Chile
28 Dec 10
I changed my avatar to place the first picture taken by me of my youngest granddaughter. My second Christmas (next year) will be full of stories, I bet. Take care!
@oldchem1 (8132)
28 Dec 10
My granddaughter is the image of her mother when she was that age - she is a real little 'mini me'!! Your kids are very brave venturing into the Bolivian Jungle, I'm sure that it will be really interesting and that it will be a adventure that they remember fr ever. You also have something to look forward to later on in the year now while all our Christmas's are over!!
@oldchem1 (8132)
29 Dec 10
She is so cute!!
@gdesjardin (1918)
• United States
29 Dec 10
My daughter is 13 and yes, she helps me in the kitchen. She has always helped me ever since she was old enough to stand on a stool. She is quite creative in the kitchen as well, and can definitely prepare all her own meals if she had to. She is a great asset to have around the kitchen and she helped me with Christmas dinner as well as all the baking prior to Christmas Day. When I am feeling poorly she will cook the entire dinner for the rest of the family.
• United States
31 Dec 10
I make all the kids take turns cooking dinner. Each one picks a day of the week at the beginning of the week. My friends used to think I was mean to make them cook, but I wanted them to learn what it is like to cook for a family. What better way to be prepared when they move out. Even my 22 year old (who hates to cook) has to cook a meal once a week. I think they learn to appreciate the fact that they can be independent. They have been cooking since they were all about 5 or so. My kids all help out cleaning and doing the laundry as well. Now the boys I don't trust with my laundry...heaven help us, my husband would be running around in pink socks if I allowed that, but they do some of their own. They don't do all of their own stuff, but they definitely can do it if I was sick, or no longer able to. My children are all pretty independent.
@oldchem1 (8132)
30 Dec 10
Which proves just how important it is to get your children involved in cooking (and housework generally) from an early age. I get so frustrated by these people who wait hand and foot on their kids and never let them help. Children LOVE to help and it is important for their life skills that they learn these things.
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@Memnon (2170)
28 Dec 10
I have no children to help- or hinder. My partner does the Christmas cooking. It's easier that way (except on the washing up). I do everything else- Chinese, Indian, pasta dishes, Mexican, that's my bag. Odd thing is that, when I cook, my partner does not deal with the washing up as speedily as me, and I end up being a part of that too!
@Memnon (2170)
28 Dec 10
I meant to add that I think it's lovely that the youngsters are involved in the preparation. For me I expect that I would become short tempered, being a tidy freak.
@oldchem1 (8132)
28 Dec 10
Sounds like you may be getting swindled on the washing up front!! Not like I'd do anything like that of course!!!!!!!
@gjax57 (897)
• United States
28 Dec 10
unfortunately my daughter couldnt make it because her family was sick :( but there is always next year...glad you had a good Christmas :)
@oldchem1 (8132)
28 Dec 10
Becky - Following in her mother's footsteps
For some reason the photo didn't upload!! Have done it here! What a shame that your daughter was sick over Christmas - there has been a lot of sickness around here too!
29 Dec 10
My children love to help me on Christmas Eve. They help with the mince pies and making the trifle and they also love to help me set the Christmas table!!
@oldchem1 (8132)
29 Dec 10
Oh yes, we always set our table up on Christmas Eve, love it!!!
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
29 Dec 10
I was tired from cooking last Christmas because my daughter cannot help me fully. She has her thesis to complete and have to study for her forthcoming exams. Hence, i did the cooking as well as the washings! However, i managed it well but my hands felt stiff from the heat and then the cold water for the washing! Anyway, it was worth it, because the entire family liked all that i prepared.
@oldchem1 (8132)
29 Dec 10
Christmas certainly can be hard work for the cook of the house, but as you say worth it when the family appreciate and enjoy it!!
@mentalward (14690)
• United States
28 Dec 10
When my sons were young, they'd make butter for Christmas dinner. They would each take turns mixing the heavy cream until it turned into butter, then they'd both press it into a fancy form. After it chilled in the refrigerator, it was taken out of the form and looked so pretty on our table! My boys were so proud of their butter. My oldest son has also been the "official maker of the mashed potatoes" since he was about three years old. He STILL makes the mashed potatoes for Thanksgiving and Christmas dinners. Sadly, we had to postpone our Christmas dinner this year because both my husband and I were sick with a flu-like something-or-other. I'm not sure because I got a flu shot this year, unless it was a new strain of flu that wasn't covered by the vaccination. It FELT like the flu although it could have just been a very bad cold. Whatever it was, I wasn't up to cooking or entertaining all day Saturday so I postponed the festivities until everyone was feeling up to it.
@oldchem1 (8132)
28 Dec 10
It is funny how things so quickly become 'tradition' isn't it. I was only discussing this with my daughters this week when I went visiting - yhey panic that they have a huge bowl of fruit, tin of chocolates, bowl of nuts and pack of dates on display every Christmas Eve because I always did when they were growing up (and still do!); I started doing it because MY mum did!! I hope you'#re feeling better soon, there has been a lot of illness here too - the swine flu has been doing its rounds again - actually there have been quite a few fatalities because of it. My eldest daughter and al her family all had it just prior to Christmas.
• United States
28 Dec 10
Unfortunately both of my kids are too small, but I am hoping one day the my daughter will help in the kitchen for special occassions, such as a birthday celebrations, Thanksgiving and/or Christmas. Even if it's just an every day occassions such as cooking breakfast, baking cookies, muffins and/or cake. Being able to spend quality time with her, because I am pretty sure my son probably won't be a kitchen person, even though my husband actually is the cooking and baking type. It must be nice, I am looking forward to it for right now I am trying to enjoy just spending quality time with them both everyway possible.
@oldchem1 (8132)
29 Dec 10
You never know, my son certainly enjoys helping. I have always gained a lot of pleasure with the kiddies 'help' - even though sometimes it takes you twice as long!!
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
28 Dec 10
Hi there! Yes,it's a busy day during christmas eve in the kitchen. Unfortunately,my son really is not into cooking that is why he can't be of help to me.My daughter is just almost 3 years old but she is so patient watching me prepare our food for christmas. I made a macarani salad which is her favorite and she is my first taster,lol! I have a niece who helps me with the preparations. By the way,Happy birthday to your daughter! See you around!
@oldchem1 (8132)
28 Dec 10
My 14 year old son seems to have taken over with helping me in the kitchen now, he loves cooking but is not to happy to help out with the washing up!!!!
@sam3m1 (190)
• United States
31 Dec 10
Our Christmas Eve dinners are a tribute to "overdone". A few years ago I began teaching the children and grandchildren how to make the traditional foods I learned as a child. http://hubpages.com/hub/Christmas-Eve-Dinner Take a look at the above. You might find it interesting. '