Using the Negative For Getting Positive Results

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Hi Sid, Thanks, for bringing this up. :O) I don't think see it quite the same way, Sid--though I'm in the ball park. First of all, a lot of the laws are simply--in my opinion--wrong. So, the idea that we'd make things legal in order to make the stated intent of the laws come true has me rolling my eyes a little. Where I do agree is that the whole judgmental approach makes some people feel attacked. So, what might be a slight difference of opinion mushrooms into huge harshly unexpedted behavior. Also, there's a lot of posturing in society. A lot of people PRETEND to dislike behaviors and situations that they like and vice-versa. And, when such people are in positions of power--it's sort of a big comedy! (At best.) It's silly trying to regulate so much behavior. And, it's even sillier to think that laws could possibly succeed in achieving such a thing. What's best is to simply use laws to help people be able to do what they want in a relatively orderly fashion, so your partying doesn't interfere with mine. Very often, the naughty thing one person wants to do is just what another person wants done "to" him or her, after all. This can be true in situations that are pretty much mind-boggling! :P Sunshine & Blessings, Giovani

DEar friend, I feel it would be a part of child pay for children. Still negative have negativity much and positive do have it own positivity. I feel the winning will be always for positive.

hi I am chewing on that idea.reverse psychology, well how avout we suggest when someone whines about losing so many deleted discussins and hgow mylot is just a scam after all, we just suggest" oh dont read the rules after all it stops your freedom of exporessin, and above all do not read the questions and answers in the information I know it is just so boring, and do not want to make much money'yere its just for socializing,but again please do not read the rukes, after akk you do not want to make a lot ofc money here. reverse that it just might work. but in our complex society I douvt if it would really work.I mean I myself would be shocked to see suddenly get drunk everyday, get s toned out of your gourd, kill as many people as you like, going to jail is fun now this would scare me silly as for everyone who would do right there will bve some who will take this as free license do be even more immoral thab they already are.I remember one mylotter here who got a zillion responses as he started out with the title only my friends can read this.'uh huh. He had over one hundred responses from I am sure many who were not on his friends.If this really would work what an ideal world.

It certainly will lessen in a great many ways. Unfortunately you will still have the repeater go hay wired and abuse it any which way possible. What I always use to tell my kids was that do like me and you will regret. HA! It worked as they are so wonderful and great. See I did not believe in being a hypocrite by telling them, do not do like me, as of course they saw me as this wonderful saint of a mother and naturally would think that if they did like me they would turn out okay. So I was completely honest and told them exactly how I was brought up and how I have led my life and this way they understood that life had to be better.

Your idea is very novel but how come make all the illegal thinfs legal? Each crime is at the expense of others'life or property.