I am sad...

@alokijon (665)
Malaysia
December 28, 2010 10:13am CST
I just found out from my friend just now that my application to be transfered to a work place which is near to my house has been rejected. For almost five years I have been applying for the transfer. Most of my friends are already transfered. I am so sad now. I just do not what to do. I feel that working at my old place is such a torture. Oh God, I just do not know what is your plan for me. I need to be strong for another one year to come. How do you feel if you are in my situation?
7 responses
@polaris77 (2040)
• Bacau, Romania
29 Dec 10
I am sorry that your application was rejected and I'm sure you feel discouraged right now,but you must remain strong and persevere in your actions;I'm sure there are many more people who don't like their present working places,but they don't give up their dreams.Good luck!
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
29 Dec 10
Honestly I would feel frustrated, but then if i want to keep my job then I don't have any other choice but to endure another year. I will try to look at the positive things like thinking i am better off with someone who doesn't have a job at all, and maybe i will convince myself that there's always tomorrow. Be strong my friend and wait for the perfect time, there's always a perfect time designed for all of us. Soon yours will come too, in His time.
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
29 Dec 10
Please don't be sad God has plan for you this year why they are not grant your request. Time will come that your plan will materialize and wait for the right time. Be happy that one day you will be happy with what you wanted into your life. You know i have also my request to Him and i wait to grant it by Him. Now i am also near to that dream. I started requesting to Him years ago. Just wait and be patient while waiting. You have especial answer. Be happy and Happy New Year!
• United States
28 Dec 10
I would be quite sad also as it sounds like the current place is not good for you emotionally. The only thing I can do is find a reasoning as to why this place is where I am to be and try really hard to make the best of it. I am sad that you are sad also, so please keep your chin up and try really hard to do well, and try again, next year for the transfer. Can you find out why the transfer was not allowed, this way you know what you are working with. Good Luck and please be well.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
29 Dec 10
If working in your old place is a torture then maybe it's time for you to find another job which could be nearer to your house. It's not good if you don't feel well working in such a way.
28 Dec 10
if i would be on your place, i would also feel the same. However, i will not be depressed like you. I would like to suggest you that dont feel your job is a torture, feel it as a contractual job, which will be finish once you quit or get transferred. Means keep requesting for the transfer and try to find a new job near you house.
@Vaultar (95)
• Romania
28 Dec 10
I can't lie to you , I wouldn't fell to well either but life goes on , you need to give it another try , find another work place , try applying to the same one again , you'll work it out in the end , getting a job never was easy and even if you will get your job in the end , trust me , working will never be fun and games , it was meant to suck , and suck it shall... Don't be sad , imagine how much worse it could be ... Good luck with your applications , Merry Christmas and Happy New Year ! Regards