Unemployment, Social Services, and Surviving

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I've been unemployed since mid-July. The week I was "laid off", I started hunting for a new job. From August 2nd till now I've had dozens and dozens of interviews, some very successful, others, not so much. Frankly it often depended upon the interviewing skills of the company hiring manager. Sometimes I walked away saying to mysel, "Wow, they're sure to hire me," and other times, "I don't want to work for this company anyway - *******!" For all the hassle I've gone through to interview (riding my bike for hours, taking three buses, or a train and two buses, or a bus and a long walk, or going on foot to every business in the area) I've had only one bite. That company assured me that I'd be called with instructions on when and where to go for a company physical and drug test. A week later, they sent me a rejection letter. I'm beginning to think my age is a factor in this - I've already gotten one rejection that stated that they wanted someone younger. If I file against them I might get them fineds, but it doesn't mean I'll see any money from it. All this time I've been requesting money from relatives - my mother, my father-in-law, social services, HEAP (for oil and electricity) and now the well is drying up. In total I must have borrowed or been given at least $5000. At this point, nobody has the money to help me now, and Social Services decided that I should only get $90 for food per month for both me and my husband (he can't work due to health reasons and has been turned down once again for disability). The local food pantries are running dry, and I'm at my wits end. A small job here or there has cropped up, and I've been helped by writing for Associated Content (now Yahoo Contributor Network) but it's not enough to keep my head above water. I'm sure that lots of you are in the same boat. Was there anything that you were able to do to get along for another month, and if so, what did you do? I'll be short on the rent again, and my landlady refuses to wait a week for a payment.