Who should I love...
By jordq7
@jordq7 (576)
Philippines
December 29, 2010 9:32am CST
Hi there mylotters!!I just want to ask your opinion about something that really puzzles me.Its like this,me and my co-trainees were left in the office all day without doing anything and we discussed few things about love.They all have experience with love and they also have active love life while I am the only one who doesn't have any.Then this discussion about love suddenly came up.Its about who is best to love a man or a woman.
We were all girls there in our office,my 2 co-trainees are currently in a relationship with boys and the other one have a lesbian partner.Now they argued if its is better to love a man than a woman .I don't know how it feels to love a man,coz I don't really have time for that,neither to love a woman or to have a lesbian partner.So while they are arguing about this topic I remain quite becoz I don't really have anything to say for I don't have any experience regarding this topic.
If I am going to ask you all,what will be your stand regarding this topic??As I said before I am a girl and often girls are meant for boys,but what if there's an option to love a girl?Who do you think will love me more,and who do you think I should love???
3 responses
@cssiduyz (1053)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 10
love those who love us, because that person can be happy that we long to live together. and do not love someone in terms of wealth or the other, because if we look for love like it's rather difficult to survive longer and can be romantic. trust me.
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@Lance26 (956)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
Don't consider who could love you more to choose who to love. Let your heart decides for it. If you choose the one whom you think could love you more than the other, then it's not love at all. Heart dictates the true meaning of love, just wait for your turn.
@annawen86 (545)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 10
well, it seems that you are still confuse about the meaning of love. love is not about who you should love, a boy or a girl. you cant push your self to think like any other people think.
what if i said that you have to love girl?then you will do what i said and love a girl?it is wrong. you cant be a lesbian just because i ask you to do it. it is the same when if you have a feeling for a girl but i push you to love man. it is wrong too, because it is not your real self.
you cant choose it because other people choose it for you, my dear. i am a normal girl, i love my boyfriend so much, and i'll never think to be a lesbian. but it is your self. you have to think it by your self the truth of you. which way do you prefer, to love a man as a normal girl or to love a girl as a lesbian. only yourself can decide it. just try to feel it, do you feel more comfortable to be with a girl or a boy. do you crush on a girl or a boy. dont hear an other people suggestion. just follow your heart, and you will know who you are.
hope you are succeed to understand about your self.
