Where do I start, to live my life alone?

Try to be brave loving alone is not too long maybe it is temporary because remember there is no man in an island. Always have companion living with them. If not at the same roof you can live with somebody eveyday at work or anywhere but always with somebody. Start living happily with hope in your heart...

One can't say to forget what the heart is feeling. It doesn't work. The heart will always hold apart of it to this relationship, that is the truth. You have to realize this to move forward. You will miss your partner, things you did together, things you counted on as well as the love you shared. Life will still move forward regardless. You have to take each step forward with it. No it isn't easy, it isn't going to be quick if you truly had them in your heart. If you feel you are not able to keep going, get ahold of a friend to go out and do something together, even if it is just to have lunch or take a walk. It helps. Ask your friends if they will help you through this time. Just take it moment by moment you will get through.

Wow! I felt that one. Yes, it is still fresh to me because the break up was just 3 weeks ago. The smell still lingers in my body and the memories in my mind. I was wondering why it ended that way and he never gave me a response. Now, I do not know where to start a life alone. I have routines that I cannot take away because am doing it with him. I used to cook for him and he cooks for us. Now, how can I be encouraged to cook when he is already away. I missed the food or dishes that he cooks for us. I missed the times that we do together. How can I go on without him. I am sorry my friend, I cannot answer you now when I can relate to your discussion.

Its very difficult to leave some one and let some one go whom you love. But never take it on heart. If someone want to go let him go. Don't stop or cry for him because who cares you will never let you cry and never leave you. I can understand your situation at this time. But it is not forever. You will be in this condition for some days or months after that you will be ok and happy in your life. Its true the memories will remain. You have to utilize your time in your daily life work so that could not find any time to remember him. Spend your time with your family and friends. Keep your self busy in your work or study. Buy some books from local writer and read them daily. Every thing will be ok with the passage of time. I hope you will understand what i want to say.

You will begin to learn how living alone at times is best then living with perhaps misery. It is truly sad and heart breaking, so please take time to allow time to heal. Keep your self as much as you can distracted so that your mind does not continue to linger on the ill thoughts.

loneliness is not always painful even there may be many hidden happiness. do not hesitate to continue to move in order to achieve success. have a nice day

hello asliah, Letting go is not that easy it will takes time but you need to learn to move on and think about your future, for sure someone out there is destined for you :). Take the chance of living alone, the chance of of spending more time with yourself in due time you will be happy again. have a nice day!