Is Love a Joke?
By dude31
@dude31 (30)
United States
December 29, 2010 1:32pm CST
Now a days things don't have meanings anymore. Most of the population today is only out to screw others over to get what they want. It's everywhere even in love. Mostly girls in my opinion. They just use guys to get what they want and later try to make there life hell wen they break up. I still have some hope though! I believe there still are some good girls out there that aren't B******. No one believes in values anymore. I guess it's not the kids faults, mostly goes on there parents and how they raised them. What do you think?
13 responses
@t_jyothi (28)
• India
30 Dec 10
Love always exist in this world. With out love there is nothing in this world. True love always wins oneday. If it is not true love it can't stay longer it would breakup any time. Weather it is a boy r girl every body has their own reasons for breaking up or staying together with love. We can't put the blame on the parents. Whether it is an attraction or love it all depends on both of them. Be patient you will get your true love. All the best!
@fheroan (615)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
Hello there dude31...
Well, you're right... but its not only girls you know, also guys... i'm a girl, and im not like that kind of girl you're talking about, at least, im proud im not... sometimes, i do hurt my man and sometimes, im feeling that i should let go because i think he's not gonna be happy with me... even though i know, that when we break up its gonna be hell to him, same way with me.. he's my first love, im his first, but thank God, we're still together, and i value him that much like a treasure that you can rarely have... and i still believe there are still married couples who value their partners and their relationship as well... but you're right, its in the parents too.... I hope you can find a girl who will value a lot of things... Have a nice day.. XD
@jotiseanoph (13)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
I think i'm gonna agree with that,Its all with the parents how there raised there kids. Now a days really some of the parents really do there best to do raised there children as good as they can in order to raised them well and because of this i really saluts to all the parents that having effort to raised there kids well! TO ALL PARENTS FIGHTING..........!!!:)
@jojo732 (294)
•
30 Dec 10
Hi dude31
Wow I'm guessing you have been hurt by a girl right, but look not everyone is just out for what they can get, real love does still exist,just look around you at those couples who still walk arm in arm after being together for many years, but who still look lovingly at each other.young people giggling laughing holding hands as they go on their fifth,sixth date etc. People are still getting married,some of them must be in love with each other right?
Love songs are still being written,so people still believe and want to be loved..so yes I believe love still exists
Happy New Year to you.
jojo732
@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
29 Dec 10
It only seems like it's mostly girls because you're a guy. Believe me, guys are that way too. But not all guys and not all girls either. There are good people in the world and there is certainly love. My two best friends are a couple. :) They've been together for 5 years so far and they live together in their own house. It's just that bad things are more noticeable than good.
@annawen86 (545)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 10
well, you cant always blame girl in that condition, my friend.i grew up in a condition where my father cheated my mother and had 3 sons from his affair woman. i grew up with the condition where my father loved my step brothers much more than he loved me. it is only because my mother only gave birth to 3 DAUGHTER. just because i am a girl than i dont get respect from my father. who's guilty is it? definitely not girl.
and i am not the type of girl that want to use man to get what i want. i never receive anything from a man because i always refuse it. infact, i help my boyfriend in his difficulty situation. i love him no matter what he is eventhough his family is poor and he cant give me treasure. all i need is only he cares and loves me no matter what i am.
someday you will find a good girl. not all of the girl are using her man. for the example me. last year, a wealthy man propose me to marry him but i refuse him. for me, wealth is not everything. yes we need money, but we can get money from working by our self. not to spend man's money for pleasure.
just pray and someday you will get a good girl :)
@fabsprecious (1565)
• United States
29 Dec 10
There is definitely love in the world, you just have to be patient and keep on searching. Ofcourse, during your search you will encounter those who are selfish and mostly out just for a good and/or take advantage of others, but there are also ones that are out there for the same reason as you. But like I said be patient. When it's time you will meet the perfect girl that will turn your world around.
I personally wouldn't blame parents, is just for me society has changed compared to how things were when I was younger. Most young people now a days aren't looking for serious relationships , they are mostly looking just to have a good time.
I was one of the lucky ones, my married my high school sweetheart 3 years after we both graduated from high school. He's is the best thing that ever happened to me. We have been happily married for almost 11 years now we have two beautiful kids. But if you are patient you will have the same happiness that I found.
@goodhunter (334)
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29 Dec 10
If its a joke then its not love. It might be selfishness or a good time but surely not love. There are so many married people who stay together all their lives.
@love4kolkata (279)
• India
30 Dec 10
I believe love is still present in wthis world. I mean to say...real love. But it doesn't within 2-3days. A relationship takes time to grow up. And it can happen when you believe in the relationship. Put your trust in that. Friendship often can grow to a good relationship. So now a days, what ppl think that...within 2-3days they will like somebody and guess that it is love...but unfortunately it is just infatuation. So..if you expect lot of things from this short term relations you will get nothing. Give some time to your relationship. It will surely work out.
@pit33pit (534)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 10
moral value now are including expensive and rare item. every parent would hope something good in her child. how they are out there the responsibility back on the children themselves.
@mdorki (125)
• Germany
29 Dec 10
I agree with you in some points. It really seems that girls exploit men's feelings more often than they do. Though, it is certainly not always the case. I knew and still know many girls who do not think this way. I also agree that parents are to blame. Though, media bear a big share on that too. Not caring parents in combination with all the stuff young people can see on TV, that is a really bad combination.