what was the worst relationship scenario you have been in?
@littlefranciscan (18327)
United States
December 29, 2010 4:37pm CST
What was the worst relationship you ever got yourself into?
How did you get out of it..was it something that left your broken hearted?
3 responses
@RL2006 (494)
• United States
31 Dec 10
The worst relationship I ever got into was, after my husband passed away in 1995, I didn't go out with any guys at all for several years, then I met up with a guy whose wife had passed away and we got to going out to eat, etc. We went together with him telling me we would be together forever, but in a few more years of going together, we both retired from our jobs, and when marriage came up, he didn't want to talk to me about that, so someone had introduced him to a woman he had known as a child, and before I knew it he had married her, moved close to me where I have to see them every time I pass his house, even though he told me he'd never move from his original house, they've been married several years now, and I'm still thinking what a nice guy I'd found before he married her, what a fool I was to listen to him in the first place.
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
31 Dec 10
Ruby that is awful how that happened.
I remember you telling me that story and the terrible thing
is that he is so close to where you live.
Men are hard to understand ..aren't they?
Joy
@aprilsong (1884)
• China
29 Dec 10
I remember someone has said:those who are out of the wall of marriage want very much to get into the wall,while those who already in it try their best to escape from it.Well,it is hard to say get married or stay single is better.Only the one who is in the marriage knows clear whether he or she is happy or not.
No matter rich or poor,good-looking or not,just find a person suitable to you.As when you choose a suitable shoes,some shoes maybe good-looking in others' eyes,but whether they make you pinch or not only is clear for yourself.
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
31 Dec 10
I agree with you 100 percent.. only the individual can decide.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
29 Dec 10
My ex husband unfortunately who was ten years older then me and acted as if I was his mother, his abused daughter and overall a horrid person.
How did I get out. I filed for divorce and legally had him out of my life.
Did it leave me heart broken? Absolutely was heart breaking that he was this way but more so painful to live with. No residuals, just glad it was done and have not seen him since.
@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
29 Dec 10
Sorry to hear that. .yet applaud you for stepping out of the
situation. It's painful to let and say good bye to folks
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