i totally wrong about my mom..
@callofwind2010 (70)
China
December 29, 2010 8:25pm CST
My mom gave birth to me when she was 34. That is late in her days.and i know the reason, i know how difficult she went through. so i loved her so much and more than everyone.She did not get any education also because of the time, it is not her fault, and i am sure she should get success if getting enough education and having a good surroundings.
when i growing old, i wonot communicate with her less. i spend most of time in other city,and less call her even i am not busy. i have thought i could not tell her things of mine, i was afraid she didnot understand,that will cause our embrasement, and i donot wanna keep my mom embrassed.
till two days ago,i found myself totally wrong for that and felt sorry for my mom. i just told her something about my work simply,something about my affection with my boy friend, she told me that i should be confident whatever coming to me, i should no worry about her,about family. That words were never heard from her. and made me crying, of course i didnot made myself exposed. ...
3 responses
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
A mother even if she is not that educated is capable of giving wise advise to her children. She gets them from experiences that she has gone through. It is her who can understand who you are and what you are because it was her who reared you until you are old enough to be able to understand many things.
Hence it is but fitting, that she should know things about you and how you are doing in life.
@PDBME2 (1014)
• United States
30 Dec 10
I think some mom's just hold on to "secrets" about life. It can make them bitter or better people but it would help to have their children understand things. Maybe what you said about your relationship sparked something in her that you just never knew.
@callofwind2010 (70)
• China
30 Dec 10
right! what we owned to our moms maybe is " a child can, but parents never can.."
well,i was confused which country the saying from?
