Love at the age of 13-14 in school days itself...

@umadper (947)
India
December 30, 2010 12:06am CST
Do you support or do you have any specific reasons for not support...
5 responses
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
Greetings :) Honestly, I am one of the few people that found love at the age of 12. It was a girl I met in dance classes. I know it does sound awkward that I started that early. Girls were still girls and not yet women. True to its nature, the relationship only lasted 6 months. So, I got my heart broken at the age of 12. Do I regret having one that early ? Definitely not. I believe that having relationships early is actually healthy for the maturity of a person. If I didn't start that early, I believe I would be very uneasy with girls. I also think that starting early gives experience to the person. As they say, you need to have many bad relationships before you could find a perfect one. Due to this experience, I have become more knowledgeable about girls. It does help me socially. I know how to treat a girl and know when a relationship is heading the wrong way. I also know when a girl is disinterested or simply couldn't say what she wants to feel. It is like I develop a sort of intuition towards girls. If I have a son and he wants to try it out, I won't stop him.
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@umadper (947)
• India
30 Dec 10
hi,If you don't misunderstand me it's outstanding and appropriate response and the same what i expected from members.I will come back to you after some more responses.All the best and have a nice time.
@umadper (947)
• India
1 Jan 11
hi,jo,congrats for getting the best response tag for your response.
30 Dec 10
Hehe.....not at 13-14.....well actually you never know....but still can't be sure if it is love or just infatuation. I t happened to me last couple of years. However, I must say that once you were infatuated with a person to the point of craziness....it stays with you!
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@umadper (947)
• India
1 Jan 11
hi,devi,thank you for sharing your ideas on this discussion .All the best and have a nice time.
• India
30 Dec 10
In my personal opinion love at this adolescence is nothing but infatuation. It can also be said as puppy love. Children are themselves confused at this point of time and a love affair will only make it worse due to their immaturity as they do not understand the integrity of love. So I will not support this love. But in case this friendship lasts till adulthood I will support such a love affair. Happy mylotting.
@umadper (947)
• India
1 Jan 11
hi,be,it's nice response and with good understanding on this subject.All the best and have a nice time.
@snm7520 (263)
• India
30 Dec 10
its not love first of all it has other name infatuation. and i dont support it because it is an adolescence age at that time some hormonal changes occurs in the body which attracts you to opposite gender. you should not consider that as love you can consider that as friendship to have a good future
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@umadper (947)
• India
1 Jan 11
hi,Thank you for your matured response and it's great to have a right version on this subject.All the best and have a nice time.
@alone33 (80)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 10
sorry I can not respond to your discussion, because I do not know the purpose of this discussion. but I want to give an opinion about your title, you might want to talk about romance in the teenage years / age are in school. at that age, about love is not so important. because they have to prioritize first lesson. and love at that age are usually called "puppy love" which was not thought up to the level further.
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@umadper (947)
• India
1 Jan 11
hi,Thank you for sharing your ideas and verssion on this subject.All the best and have a nice time.