Is it possible that LOVE will happen between aged man and young girl ..
By umadper
@umadper (947)
India
5 responses
@parveen86 (101)
•
31 Dec 10
I don't really have an example but I would just like to say ghat I don't trust the love between an old man and a young girl or vice versa. I just don't think its normal. I had heard on tele afew years back about a 17 year old who married a 64 year old but she soon left him after his money ran out saying that he revolted me with his false teeth and the fact that he never wanted to go out and just wanted to stay in and play chess all the time. The two genres are very very different from each other. They have nothing in common and it honestly baffles me what makes the young one fall for the old one. All I can think of is money really. The old ones fall for the young one for the youthful beauty, that parts obvious.
@lucky119 (643)
• India
30 Dec 10
Of course, Love can happen between aged man and young girl. If there can be love as in gays and lesbians, why not in case of aged and young.
As for the example, I can't comment on relevance of it.
There was a girl in a village in India who got married to an older man because of some family problems. But after marriage, there was a strong bonding between them and the girl was very much in love with her husband.
So, its up to us as to how we take it.
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@umadper (947)
• India
1 Jan 11
hi,I am very happy to hear this incident that too the classic example to the real value of marriage,which will happen in the great country like India only.I am also proud to be born in India where there is very much importance to human relations,value giving for arranged marriage,caring elders,showing affection on children,parents,spouse...
All the best and have a nice time.
@Buchi_bulla (8298)
• India
30 Dec 10
One of our acquaintance girl was engaged to a worthy man from another city and I attended the function. She was very happy looking on that day. The marriage date was fixed. Just two months before the wedding, some of my friends told me that she was seen having coffee with a middle aged person in the adjacent hotel quite often. Then one day she attended half-a-day office and did not come home. Finally they could locate her in that man's house and she said she wants to marry him. Finally her parents made her take transfer to another city and there she loved someone else and got married to him and is living happily now. I still do not understand what is this all about. Anyway as long as she is happy and settled in life, it is good.
@vandana7 (100616)
• India
30 Dec 10
Buchi - dont you think it is the way we are brought up that we think it is not possible?
I mean history is full of such examples. Even Sita was supposed to be older than Rama, we all know Radha was considerably older than Krishna. Many of our emperors have had (first) wives who were older than them. Now that the topic has come up, it does seem something odd, but it has been going on for centuries...
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@markroderick (888)
• Philippines
24 Jan 11
Everything is possible when it comes to love. Just like what others say that impossible becomes possible if two people are in love. Although the love between an aged man and a young woman will for sure cause a shocking reactions to both families. We cannot judge a person because he or she marries a younger or older than his age. Some had their reasons like they marry the person because it can give them a stable future or their are some that they really love the person. Whatever the reasons behind it, hope a lot of people would be more understanding and open minded when it comes to having a relationship with the older ones.
@snm7520 (263)
• India
30 Dec 10
age is not a matter with love anyone can love anyone in this world. the thing is whether it came out of love or other thing like external appearance, money, just pleasure..etc i never seen such things in my practical life. i dont wanna go with cinema which is a fake world.