I am so Mad!!

This was an extremely inconsiderate thing for him to do. Most people that are married keep each other informed if there are changes they need to know about. I would be very mad and would have to wonder how much consideration he had for me and my daughter to pull something like that. You clearly had to be the last thing on his mind. I hope you tell him how much he made you worry and get a full explanation as to why he did this. I truly hope you can work this out. Just be as calm as possible and work it out with him.

I understand how you feel. My father did that once to my mom. I was already married. We called every hospital, we thought of accidents... You know. That was before the cellphone. When he arrived (very happy because he had been with a friend who had a bookshop and had brought some books to mom) we almost killed him. My mother and siblings wouldn´t talk to him, but I´m the yelling type. And I YELLED. How could he...! The problem is not how long he is away but why don´t they say! You should explain to him that you were VERY scared.

Did you see that car again? Did you tell your husband about the car in the neighborhood? Yes, I'd be very angry if this occurred though my husband and I have never had this issue. Even when he was in his accident at the start of this year I was the first person he phoned. Just stay safe! Namaste-Anora

Men can be like children where as they do not think about the probability that you as the wife was wondering what happened. Especially if is type to routinely come home and not disappear for hours. My thinking would be like yours instantly that something happened also, then anger would kick in as I would feel like he was inconsiderate.

I'm not married but I've been with my boyfriend for four years and I do get mad when times like that happen.. They don't notify anyone if things change makes me so mad too. I'd yell but I'd get over it too..

I would be mad to. Knowing me I would let him know how I felt about what he did, seems to me that he lied to you. I would of called his mom's house to see if that is where he really was, some men can be deceitful and tell there wives one thing and really be doing something else. I am not saying he is doing this but you never know.