good night... good manners or............
By saphrina
@saphrina (31551)
South Africa
December 31, 2010 2:31pm CST
Hello everyone.
Okay, just one thing here.
I don''t want to hear about good morning or good afternoon.
Is it a habit or good manners to say good night?
No matter who you say it to.
Parents, children, loved one's or friends.
I was taught to always say good night to those near or around me.
People i know of course, not strangers.
That would be funky.
Do you say good night or do you forget or just ignore it?
TATA.
Oh and happy new year.
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@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
31 Dec 10
It is good evening for me right now.. So good morning/day/afternoon/evening/and good night to you. In case I forget to say so some day this will cover it for me so there I said it. LOL
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
1 Jan 11
Happy New Year my dear and sweet friend mysd.. I have to say that I find you to be the nicest, more helpful and caring person I have met here on myLot. Always looking out for so many of us.
I so look forward to the continual interactions in 2011!![em]
Happy New Year to you! 





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@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
1 Jan 11
Thank you meluan. I am sitting here tearing as it is now 12:20pm over here and am reflecting on the tough year I have had. But so looking forward to a better year. 

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@hora_fugit (5862)
• India
31 Dec 10
It's not my habit and maybe I'm manner-less
but I rarely use that term. Back in home, I always used to wish Goodnight to one of my sisters.. every night before going to bed. Then everybody started feeling hey! why to her only and I extended it to each of my family. Coming here and residing for such long times, I just got out of this habit. Now I do wish people around me, when I really want to wish... mainly after we had a long, heartening conversation. Kind of 'thank you' embedded in this.
Maybe that much descriptive answer is not what you wanted. :P and yes,
Happy New Year!




@hora_fugit (5862)
• India
1 Jan 11
Thanks for the comment
but I'll be more careful from now on to avoid appearing so bragging always... Hope Vandana doesn't see it!
And Happy New Year to you too!



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@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
31 Dec 10
It is what I expected of you as it shows you are well mannered.
Happy New Year hora!!!

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@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
1 Jan 11
LOL she can see the blonde just about anywhere so no where to hide. 

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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
31 Dec 10
If there is anyone to say it to I say goodnight
but tonight it's Happy New Year to everyone, strangers included
and to YOU! 





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@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
31 Dec 10
I am going to advance a good night to you all, except for thesids who is hopefully wrapped in his blanky...
For it is still evening. So Happy New Year to all!

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@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
1 Jan 11
Hi Opal I find you to be one who the best manners also.
Just wanted to pop in and wish you a Happy New Year!

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@Anora_Eldorath (6028)
• United States
1 Jan 11
Saphrina-
I was taught that you always said goodnight to those around you wherever you were at the time. So, if I am visiting I always say goodnight. So, if you are off for now I bid you goodnight. It is still early here so I will not be retiring for another six or seven hours. Happy New Year my friend.
Namaste-Anora
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@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
1 Jan 11
Hello Ms. Anora and wanted to barge into your box..
Happy New Year to you, your hubby and children.
May we all be bless with best health and harmony in
2011! 




@shibham (16977)
• India
1 Jan 11
Hi saphie... GOOD MORNING AND HAPPY NEW YEAR 2011.
I am not the person for formality maintain. Sometimes i use good morning to my principal and senior professors but not daily... it's according to my mood. As i live alone and nobody to wish by good night.. so i less use it.

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@shia88 (4570)
• Malaysia
1 Jan 11
Hi,
I do teach my son to say "good Night" everynight before
goes to bed,but I myself don't have this habit to say good
night to my parents.
Probably because my family don'e have such practice since we are young,
so we just go to bed without saying "good night" to our
parents.
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@eurekafemme (5874)
• Philippines
1 Jan 11
Hi, Saphy.
I still do. though in my family , it is not a normal thing to do especially for the elders. I'm not sure why they haven't adopt such habit despite of the fact that we are so close and loving to each other.
With regard to my husband, i only say goodnight to him if he isn't sleeping at home.and when he is texting after hitting the sack.But, when he's here with us, we ca doze off without even saying a single word to each other.
But, when it comes to my kids, it is a common scenario, meaning saying goodnight, kisses and hugs, paired with I love you's.
Oh, and, happy new year to you, too, dear .



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@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
2 Jan 11
Hi sweetie.
Seems the elders don't do anything we do or say these days.
Strange actually.
I try to say good night, but it's not always that easy.
He normally go to bed before i can say it.
But one of these days it will be better.
Happy new year to you and yours.
TATA.
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@sender621 (14890)
• United States
1 Jan 11

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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
31 Dec 10
hi Saphrina,
Happy New Year 2011.
I do say people good night but I am scared of nights and darkness these days... And moreover, I thought the party would continue all night (btw it is morning 3:15 am right now here in India).
Ok, Good Night... Sleep like a baby.
theSids

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@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
31 Dec 10
If my math is right it is now 5am for you where as it is 5pm here by me. So Good morning to you during my evening. 

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@thanks1961 (7033)
• India
1 Jan 11
You start up with a nice topic and after discussions, it goes far away from the topic when it go discussed by so many.
As you said, if someone says good morning, I repeat. Like that, good afternoon also. But lately, good night is a practice at my home. Before going to bed, my daughter used to tell me good night as she goes early to bed and I am the last one. Why she is saying good night? She want to hear a story for 2-3 mts. and by the time she would sleep.
And the funny thing is that she say good nigh, Ambani, (one of the richest in India), good night Gate (Bill Gates), good night Obama (US President) and Good night Lal (her favourite film star) and finally, good nigh papa (me).
This is here practice for the last 6-8 moths as she know these are the noted people and should follow. However, good night is the sweetest among all.
So, good night and happy new year.
Thank-s
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@bryansgirl (51)
• United States
31 Dec 10
I always say Good Morning when I greet someone. Then, when I leave I say Good Night or Have a Good Night.
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@rameshchow (4426)
• India
1 Jan 11
here in india now its 9.13pm,
so
good night saphrina...
n
Wish You Happy n Prosperous New year to you and to your family members....
(after a long time i m seeing......)
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@akp100 (13640)
• India
1 Jan 11
Hi saphy.. Good morning.. (sorry but its morning now)
Happy New year too you and all above responders...
About good night.. whenever i leave my office around 6 or 7 pm I always say GOOD NIGHT very loudly... In starting my few friends were laughing at me that its still not night. But i guess we can say good night during leaving time don't we??
Whatever it is but now all are they in this habit too.. Now they tell me good night before i tell them.



@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
1 Jan 11
Happy New Year anand!
Hoping that it is not too late 


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