Forgiven and forgotten, is it possible??

Only time heals the pain,maybe it takes a very long time but there will be the right time to ease all behind in the past.Yes! it is possible to forgive and forget,even we've hurt us so badly before.But,I think what we should do is to give time yourself to retreat on it.Set at least one day to cry and express your been hiding feeling.This will really makes your feeling so light and also to accept the fact that it over.It's been almost after how many time.So, give yourself to move out from bitterness and show up the world happy again.I know, it very hard but try to think how pity yourself to still be live in past.Don't let be a prisoner and trapped from the past.Move on, and cope up.The best thing to helps it easy way, is to talk that person one on one and asks for forgiveness and forgiven. Don't waste your time, in a world who doesn't yours at all.Decision the right thing because you can't never be back that what have been lost and over.

Piperu... That is the same uestion I have been asking myself for years. I love my husband so much but he betrayed me and tainted our love. To make the story short, he asked for my forgiveness and though we are still living under the same roof, I can not seem to forget the pain and the past. Though I can honestly say that I have forgiven him. But, yes, it is possible. Day after day, I endure the pain, fear and uncertainties of not knowing what to do and where to go just to forget him and what he did. How I hate him sometime when I see that he is enjoying his life while I am suffering in silence. But, with God's grace and my persistent effort to convince myself to love ME a little more, I am slowly finally moving on. I guess, the heart knows when to stop when it really has to stop and move on. Just help yourself and pray to God more often than you used to. It helps a lot with the healing. Do not rush, take your time and your heart to heal. You'll get there.

It sounds like you may need to do some soul searching to make sure you have truly forgiven him. However, i say "forgive for sure - forget h*ll no!" You don't want to repeat decisions that you've paid for The only way to keep from repeating is to remember!

Forgiving someone that has hurt me is not the hard part for me to deal with. forgetting the transgression seems to cling deeper to me. i can easily forgive. i just can't seem to forget too.

instead of running away from memories, recall the most precious moments that you've spnet with him. everything'll go fine.. even though he's hurt you, he's been your love! so chill and enjoy..