Best friend of my boyfriend is such a nice guy
By Suggar
@Suggar (3606)
Bulgaria
January 2, 2011 1:01pm CST
Hello friends, i would like to share that finding friends is something really really hard. Since i live in different than my own city, i had no friends here for so long and just couldn't handle my life that way. I only chatted with my friends online, but it's terrible when you have no one to invite to sit and drink coffee with you.
My boyfriend got one friend, who is really a nice guy. He always is respectful and nice and i always can talk with him much more than with all of his other friends, even more of his friends, who are girls. This is a guy but we have great communication, i feel like he always can understand what i mean and always will try to help me.
We spent the New Year celebration together and it was more than nice. For first time i felt like on my table there are only friends and no one is superfluous. That was amazing feeling. And i would like to tell you now ... don't get afraid to be friendly with people you don't know, don't be afraid to show your real personality in front of people, who don't know you. May be that's how they will become one of your best friends. 
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@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
3 Jan 11
It is a really great feeling to be able to be ourselves in front of others. I had a loss with all my friends. For some odd reason I lost my job and somewhat am worthy to friend. hmmm..
Anyways my boyfriend is an actor so I meet a great deal of people frequently I find that immediately especially the women are shy/jealous/irritated by my immediate presence (shh, my boyfriend is with me so they hate that,LOL), so I find that I immediately express myself and am so very friendly. Long and behold they get really chummy with me and are so enlightened to see me more and more.
So I so agree with yo that we have to remain us always as what is inside of us is not so bad.
@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
3 Jan 11
First hun, congratulations for the blue star, because you deserve it 
That artistic area is so nice and so full of art, i can imagine how you feel with that kind of people around you 
Girls are jealous, irritated and shy everywhere, that's why i keep my friendships with girls mostly in internet, because there is still some border for the friendship and nobody goes in the personal life of the others.
That artistic area is so nice and so full of art, i can imagine how you feel with that kind of people around you
Girls are jealous, irritated and shy everywhere, that's why i keep my friendships with girls mostly in internet, because there is still some border for the friendship and nobody goes in the personal life of the others. @hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
3 Jan 11
HA! Let's see how long it lasts this time. 
In three days I went from 10 to 9 to a 10.. So something is definitely not right. If okay with you I will friend you on here as I find your discussions way later and late to post.
This way I will get the alerts and able to post sooner. ,
I do enjoy your discussions and find you to be a very great contribution to myLot.
I find it pretty funny with the female actresses when I first meet them to be this way then later turn out to be really great friends. I do however keep some form of distance as you know how that is. If they were so great they would not act the way they do when I first meet them.
In three days I went from 10 to 9 to a 10.. So something is definitely not right. If okay with you I will friend you on here as I find your discussions way later and late to post.
This way I will get the alerts and able to post sooner. ,
I do enjoy your discussions and find you to be a very great contribution to myLot.
I find it pretty funny with the female actresses when I first meet them to be this way then later turn out to be really great friends. I do however keep some form of distance as you know how that is. If they were so great they would not act the way they do when I first meet them.@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
4 Jan 11
I think that if it's going to be friendship between two people, they will know it at the first moment and it will stay that way for long time. We just are able to see and feel who is close to us, if we can't see it with our eyes our souls talk to us in hidden way which one would be a good friend and which won't be a good friend.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
2 Jan 11
hi Suggar that is the best thing about my few really good friends here at Gold crest, I can relax and not try to be someone other than my own
plain boring self. They accept me to the point that when we are sharing food we often time are qu iet and its not that awful silence where one is is tryng to figure out what to say to break the deafening silence. this is a relaxed we all like each other silence where if we want to we will speak but if we dont all wil lunderstand.I hope this makes sense. There are good silences with good friends, and awful silences when you are not sure what to say to break that silence.oh Suggar remember hes just a friend of your boyfriend so that your boyfriend has no worries either. lol.I mean its wonderful you are really great friends with your boyfriend's friend,just have an emagtional boundary there. lol
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
2 Jan 11
oh my g typo alert just saw it too late last few words, I misspelled
emotional , how I managed to get a g in it is beyond me and how I managed tp not see the red line under it?
@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
2 Jan 11
Hy Hatley, it's great what you said for your friends. Yes, i know what you mean about that comfortable silence you got together, i feel the same with my real friends and never feel pushed to say something to break it. The silence will be broken at the moment when someone has something to say, which will be interesting for all of us.
But i'm not exactly sure that i understood the message in the second post ... what red line? 
But i'm not exactly sure that i understood the message in the second post ... what red line? 
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
4 Jan 11
I agree with you that it is hard to find friends. More so, are best friend material. I know quite a lot of people, but none really that I could say are best friends. I think my best of friends are the ones I met in school. They're the ones I went through some struggles in life. And they were the ones I've had the chance to talk to more openly.
It's great that you have a good guy in your bf's friend.
@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
4 Jan 11
My boyfriend knows his best friends since they were together in school. Unfortunately i don't have such friends, i was not close with the people i could finish my high school, but i have great friends who i worked with.
And i'm also glad that i can be a part of the company of my boyfriend, because they are nice people.
@bilalbabarsaleem (73)
•
2 Jan 11
Hi i read your whole article and i really like the way you express your feeling,because that had happened to me same thing when i moved to a different city where no one knows me,but few people are so natural and u just like them as way they are,so i got a few great friend after some time......
