Are you agree with this?

That is great advice to avoid getting hurt, but you don't always have a choice. Sometimes you fall in love in one quick moment, and there's nothing you can do to stop it because you didn't even see it coming! Then even if you know you are just an option to the one you love, you can't help but make them a priority.

Actually I choose to love somebody irrespective of what he thinks of me. So there is no greater difference if I am an option or priority in his life. Sometimes you just have to spread your love around iredeemably, without any return, for the sake of love, not of getting it back:)

Yes, I totally agree with this! My daughter put this on her facebook while back when she was finally realizing that helping her ex=husband meant absolutely nothing to him. They have a child and she always is helping him get out of the messes he puts himself in and then never does anything to "pay her back" or thank her or anything. She finally got the point and stopped doing for him. She finally saw that she had made him a priority in her life cause of her child, while she was only an option in his life for bail out purposes.

My friend it is fully depend upon the situation that may occur and it will be wise if you act as per the situation.

Right!!!Don't trust to much with your partner.That your the only one he loves and his world is just for you.Well,men would really make you believed their love and sincerity to you.How special of you and they can't live without you!!!That's definitely a big and foolish lie.If you will believe then,you will be the one who will look stupid and pathetic.Man enjoys to have a lot of woman in their life,what they just do is to collect and select.Just taste and experience they just after.Except for those good man with good heart.Then, you your world will just turn around on him,but on him your just his option.It's really painful,knowing if the one you trust and love so much was just making fun of you,playing your heat. I know,it happened almost in a relationship.But there are some also, who are stick to one.But agree it or not,it's just a seldom, very rare to find.Only once in as blue moon you could find it. Now a days,both man and woman do that such things.We are human beings and our needs is unsatisfied.If we have already our wants then new came then we also want it.It's maybe part in our being human.Want we want is to get anything even if we don't need it.It's like in a relationship there's a lot of girls outside to have fun and to taste.Just sort of experience,and if were tired then it's the time to find the woman or man in our dreams.Until,our hearts will make satisfied on that someone.It only matters in age, when you are old enough to have fun.Then,you'll want to engage in serious relationship.If you are too young,just go with the flow don't take relationship to much serious.There a right time for love.A genuine love or true love.On prioritize someone.when it's the right time with the right person. Try to control your feelings so that you won't get hurt to much.Because too much love will kill you.It happens a lot of people who's got a failure relationship.The most important thing of all and the greatest love of all in to love yourself first before anyone else.Take good care of you heart because it's hard when hearts got broken and your life gets ruined.

Yes, I agree. If someone becomes a priority in your life, you will lose yourself. No, I hate this feeling and maybe someday the one you cared leavy you along and you will hate yourself too.

Try to tell that to the younger generations who think that they will become a priority in someone elses life.

In certain situations I agree with you.

I totally agree! Only put people in priority status if they earn it. Life is too short to waste time on the people who are not willing to do the same

This quote actually defines me to the point. So many "flopped" relationships because of the lack of respect in our relationship. However when faced with a challenge one must pull through and now I am thriving with a family of 3 and a child my own.