Learn from the past

Of course, I want change this year. I also do not want to repeat, the same mistakes. I want my life to be better. The mistake that I have done, will I make a lesson for me. So, I avoid the same mistakes. I really hope, this year full of smiles.

Good Day! Yes. I have of experiences in 2010 and its bad and good. I also made a lot of mistakes so this year I don't want those mistakes to happen again like being late in school, spending too much and many more so now, I control and discipline myself.

Hi visavis, I would like to delete all the bad factor from my memory of the past. If anything I would love to make change is not to repeat the painful actions of the past. Past can not be detached but we can make a good combination of both the past and present.

hello friend, If you keep doing the same mistakes all over again..it's not learning then,it's some kind of habit or being foolish. It is fine to make mistake,we are human and not perfect. Sometimes we can do same mistake,twice and sometimes even thrice depends on situation (mostly in love...doing same mistake) But for other things,doing the same mistake again and again is...not good anymore. Good and bad experiences always give us something to remind,to learn ,to regret and patch up with. We should always look at the positive side,pick up the pieces and start from what has remained. Sometimes bad things give us more to learn and make us a better one. I always learn from something from everyday life,from all the people around me. Have a good day always.

Hi Visavis, Putting it straight, I dont want to change myself now. I have been trying hard over the past few years and have realized that I have reached a stage where it is good that I stick to what I am at the moment. I have changed (I think for good) learning from my harsh experiences - making mistakes, then correcting them or trying to correct them and today I realize that this is what I can / want to be - "I want to bring smiles and happiness all around me" and that is all that I want to live for. For everything else, I think I have had enough - sadness, enemies(though I dont remember anyone at war with me in the world), friends, ups, downs, madness, illness... the list is big this end and smaller on the other where I want to spread happiness, love and smiles. Cheers, theSids

Your discussion is wonderful. We must be learned in the past incident before doing best right way.

Yes, i learn from my mistakes and from there i correct myself. For this year , i will learn to be frugal. I will not eat out with friends anymore when it's not needed. I shall not be buying clothes, shoes and bags that are not very much needed anymore. I will exercise at least 3x a week. Most of all, i would like to add more time to my prayer time.

Yes, past is past and won't come back anymore, and regretting of what have been done is a big mistake so what I suppose to do is do my best to succeed.

Hello!! Yes...in 2010 I have done lot of mistakes. And that is related to my office. I am very short tempered person. So sometimes I used to get angry on my junoirs who report to me. I used to scold them. But after sometime, I used to feel really bad about them that what rights I have to scold them? May be they are freshers, but they are also employees of the same company. So by this year...I am always trying to control my anger. You can say...I am learning anger management...

everybody has mistakes. and me personally. i have learnded from my mistakes. do not get me wrong. i have alot of good memories also. but i worked on my mistakes and i watch over my daugther so she will not make the same mistakes that i did.