Apathetic
By gengeni
@gengeni (3308)
Indonesia
January 3, 2011 1:47am CST
I admit I'm a apathetic. I'm not good at socializing, terrible at hanging out, and also adapting to an environment.
I am more comfortable if I own and enjoy my solitude at home.
any home
I was not close to my parents, besides that we also often creates a conflict.
whether it is differences of opinion, mind, and so forth. many people around me who are sympathetic to my condition
and there is also the antipathy they judge me .. a poor man, my parents ever teasing me like a child with autism.
I therefore look like a cool person, individualist, and sometimes someone said I was arrogant.
I did feel and I want to change .. I do not want to go on like this, I want to be like other people who generally do not like me.
What should I do?
9 responses
@nakula2009 (2325)
• Indonesia
4 Jan 11
you must change your mascara and your establishment, you live in this world are not alone, God created man for sharing and helping each other
@junmae (1586)
• Philippines
4 Jan 11
I think you have a problem or you had an experience before that triggered the personality you have right now. I dont know the real reason why you are acting that way, maybe you should be more out spoken, dont just keep thoughts in your mind but release them. Talk to a very close friend and seek some advice. Try to go out with somebody or a group, people would love to have you. Maybe they look at you in the different way because you made them do so. I suggest you to seek help with a friend who is very close to you, or somebody who really knows what you feel.
@lingaypaculdar (337)
• Philippines
4 Jan 11
Apathetic is such a heavy word. I think you can use introvert, istead. You can start changing your life by the power of your smile. You know, smile counts a lot. By smiling, you can start gaining friends.It's a good sign you don't want to be like that forever, and if you really want to change, you have to set a goal and strive in order to achieve it. Try to be friendly, and look at life with positive outlook.
@rifnee (1713)
• Indonesia
4 Jan 11
The heart is the container every feeling, including good and bad,There is a good course there must be bad and vice versa, the other not only as a differentiating factor for us to choose which is the best way to travel in living life in the world.
Only a flexible heart will be able to recognize where the source both of them so that they can manage both of them become useful in life science.
@magicchou (163)
• China
3 Jan 11
It seems that you have the determination to change your character, that is the first step, that absolutly cool! Poeple are tend to interact with those who are easygoing. So try to be easy going, talk to others, make youself known to others. I suppose this method will work! Wish you can feel good 24/7!!!
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
3 Jan 11
You have a lot to smile and hang out with people who exist around you. Always think positive about people who you meet and most importantly, try to always be the first to greet
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
3 Jan 11
First of all, have a strong conviction to change that. Think positive, always smile when you meet a person. Have an approachable attitude.
As to your parents, be loving to them. They are teasing you, so that you will act in a manner contrary to an autistic. Their teasing means they like you to lighten up. Be with friends who have happy dispositions. Choose friends who can talk to you on what you should do to change for the better.
Always have a happy disposition and you for yourself will gain friends.
@Wjsucsess (45)
• China
3 Jan 11
Don't be afraid of what,others than you better not much,also do not arrogant,look down on people,you want out to see smiling,to contact the society,the outside world is wonderful.contact person many,many things,you'll find your self-confidence.
