do you believe that your bestfriend is your best enemy?
By fgb_fritz
@fgb_fritz (278)
Philippines
9 responses
@CinnamorollTK (263)
• United States
3 Jan 11
A best friend usually has your secrets, knows what you like, and things like that. If something happens to make this friend turn against you, s/he has the ability to release your secrets, destroy what you like, and make your life more miserable than someone who is just an enemy can.
So a friend can be a "best enemy" but only if they try to turn against you. Hopefully though your friends won't do that.
@smallsaozhou (827)
• China
3 Jan 11
Wow,that sounds like a very horrible thing,really! luckily I never have frineds like that.I usually choose friends according to my taste and experience.Although my sixth sense probably is not reliable all the time,but most of time it really works.I am glad to see that.So friends like you said hardly to get close to me.And also I hold on one principle,never try to turn against my friends in order to gain more benefit,so mostly I believe that my friends won't turn against me equally.
@renzkie (8)
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8 Jan 11
maybe yes..some people are just pretending to be your bestfriend and once he/she broke you friendship, then there will be a posibility that all your secrets will be retrieve to other people that could ruin your life.
@Tamijuddin (81)
• India
4 Jan 11
Friendship, in its true sense, is based on mutual faith, belief etc. When you say your best friend, the guy is above all the other friends, so close and chosen by you. Then where is the chance of calling him best enemy. Only a friend can become best, but enemy is enemy only, because enemy is bent upon defaming, destroying you whether you call him enemy only or best enemy.
@MsPatriciaDV (635)
• Philippines
3 Jan 11
Based on experience, I believe in that saying. Your best friend knows most things about you. If you got into a really big trouble with your best friend, he can cause you too much pain for the things he knows. Remedy there is, I believe, not to tell everything to your best friend. Keep something for yourself.
@smallsaozhou (827)
• China
3 Jan 11
No,definitely things like that never happened to me before.My good friends and I,we are all have quite tolerant attitude with each other.Sometimes we like tease with each other,but we all know that these small jokes are just entertainment to make our life funnier,so we never really lose our temper.More tolerant,less enemies,and better life ,that is really my life recipe.
@juniorstringbean08 (455)
• Philippines
3 Jan 11
Well, that could happen. Depending upon the situation. For an instance, that person you consider your "bestfriend" may have been there all the time for you, well at least you thought of him that way, but you never knew what he really is doing behind you. A friend may get insecured in your achievements, if he doesn't like you being superior all the time, he'd probably pull you down rather than be proud of what you've attained. It happens, MOST OF THE TIME. And worse thing about it, it happens when you least expected it. There are only a few I knew who remain true as a friend, but mostly stay whenever you need them, but boast negative things about you when you're not around. I think it's best to keep things (serious and big things) by yourself and never tell it to anyone even to your closest friends, because when things turned not right between the two of you, he'll surely do whatever it takes to destroy your name. Respect is only earned to some extent. Trust is more important. As for me, I never trust anyone these days. It's really not secure to do it.
See you around, happy MyLotting!
