Mother allows her son to express himself HIS way!

You know Dawnald I thank you for being honest. Most people wouldnt admit that for fear of being called prejudiced or some other stupid thing. This is what society has done to most ALL-AMERICAN families. We tend to worry about what the Joneses may think. My parents would've done the same EXACT thing. Not because they're afraid but because they dont want to deal with the ridiculous inuendos. As you stated others may not understand. My parents wouldnt want to explain. My dad would rather keep it a secret or try to ignore it. I couldnt allow myself to deal with it this way for the simple fact that Ive always went against the grain. I do what I want because I believe in it. I couldnt careless about anyone's opinion. However, I must admit my life has been tough because of this. My sister is like you. She would do just as you described. Because of this she and I barely speak. However her children think Im awesome. I would love a better relationship with my sister but have to stand behind what I believe in. My children have been raised to be what they want. If I had a son and he wanted to be a princess, he would've been the best damn princess he could be. Happy MyLotting and thanks for your honesty. dl

I think you would have done the right thing if this happened to you. The only thing im different on is the fact that IM the parent I decide what's appropriate or not. If he was my son, I would let him do ANYTHING that makes him feel good. I dont care who/what considers it appropriate or not. the only thing I wouldnt allow is for him to do anything to hurt himself or others. Other than that he's free to express himself ANYWAY he chooses. Thanks dl

Excellent point Dodo! I was touched by the story in it's entirety that I hadnt taken the time to see what courage it must have taken for the little boy to mention his desires. Even though he's young he knows that the other kids may be mean to him. It takes guts to dawn a dress in front of friends, family, etc. I, too, have much respect for these parents. Especially the mother who never, not even once, tried to persuade her son otherwise. Hats off to you for helping me see the bigger picture and to the parents for being the people they are and raising such an excepting, creative, and AWESOME son. dl

You're absolutely right Celtic! It is usually just a phase. Things are much different now a days. Things are not so cut and dry. People are more accepting. These days men wear pink without being afraid that someone will call them a fairy. lol. I remember when I was little if they even used the pink crayons the other boys would pick on them. I love the fact that little boys even think the way this amazing young man did. Happy MyLotting dl

Really! I agree. Happy Mylotting to you too.

Its good to know that Im not the only parent that doesnt think the world is ending because a child may choose to dress differently that expected by society. Individuality is a gift. Most choose to disregard it and follow the trends. Its really sad too. Because we are stifling our creativity. Happy MyLotting my friend dl.

I agree with you Anniepa! I couldnt have been a better mother than this one if I tried. As you said, she handled this with such class, dignity, and most of all pride. That is the finest example of UNCONDITIONAL love Ive ever heard and probably will ever hear. I wish I could meet this mother and child. Thanks for the great well wishes and praise to this mother. Hopefully someone out there will tell her there's some parents and friends out there that think what she did was the greatest! Happy MyLotting dl

Very, VERY, true Moonlit! It may have backfired on them and they could blame no one but themselves. This boy is brave beyond his years. I know people who dont have the guts to wear certain things they would like to because of what might be said. Who cares what others think its what we think that matters. Happy MyLotting dl