Sons love life..lol!

Good, I'm glad he's found someone and I hope it turns out well! Yes, I've felt sorry for an enemy. The woman who my husband left me for, for example. It's by no means a bed of roses and they have their problems. I do feel sorry for her sometimes. I also feel kind of glad that things are settling down and their lives are becoming more even because I want him to be happy. I will never have a place in my heart for her but I'm sorry for her when she's unhappy because that means he is unhappy, too. I no longer love him as any more than a distant friend but I want him to be happy. Other than that I have rarely, if ever, felt sorry for an enemy. It takes a LOT for me to think of someone as an enemy and they've usually done something horrible and so rotten that only God would be good enough to forgive them.

I try to find balance in everything and hope that the good outweighs the bad. It's not always the case so I don't waste my time feeling sorry for those people. I do however, thank my lucky stars that I was able to move on...and move away.

Hi Bunny Well I hope that it all works out for the best this time Bunny as I think your Son deserves a Break I would not feel sorry for the other one as she did nothing to try and keep the relationship going to a level where it could have worked I hope it works out this time I really do

You know down on the left lower side of the notification there is a button called 'delete'. Right? If I don't care for, or am bored with, a subject on here I just delete it an move on! LOL Yours rarely bore me. It sounds like your son has finally realized that mom knows what she is talking about. Hope it works out.

Do we ever remember how much that one from New York drove you nuts. I think that your son deserves someone that is going to be good for him, but I also think that he deserves to have a woman in his life that isn't going to cause conflict between yourself and him. I kind of like that this new girl is only 50 miles away from you all because that won't be a relationship that will be as hard to maintain as the relationship with Ms. New York would have been.

You are too funny! Does you son know that you discuss his love online? Just curious. You obviously are a great mother and it is great that you are so concerned. More parents should be like you and take an interest in everything, including their children's love life. I would just caution you not to get too overly involved and hopefully he is making his own decision because you don't want to make decisions for him. I wish your son happiness and success! Happy New Year

I feel sorry for my son's ex. They are not divorced, but will be. I feel sorry for her son as well. She just is very inappropriate and drives people away, even her own family.

well, I do when they seem to have invited the pain on themselves, but not enough to do anything if they won't take good advice when its given them that woman has a monster of her own making in her son - so I figure she deserves whatever he dishes out for her he's still at an age where he could be corrected, but she's not willing to do it, so - too bad, so sorry, good bye

hi bunnybon maybe hes realized that the kid alone would have driven him nuts too. I am glad he has found a really sweet girl and maybe she is the 'one if he just relaxes a bit and enjoy just being with her. I only had six weeks before we married but we were more mature and somehow it was like he had been picked out for me.He and I had a lot in common although as types we were total opposites, I was the introvert and he was a real extrovert.but somehow we just complemented each other.I have felt sorry for someone I really did not like as she was catty and always threw barbed comments at me. she was jealous of me for marrying the orderly of our hospital as though he was her property. He never made any play for her but she just wished he had.But I felt sorry for her as she was so alone and missed her wealthy husband although I think it was more his money as she was running out which is why she was working at St.LUkes. She just did not know how to budget her money and just spent without thinking of the consequences. He had left several million dollars but it was going too fast. we tried to caution her to put most all of the millions into saving account and live on the interest which did amount to plenty to live on monthly. but her tastes were more exotic than ours were as she only wanted the best. \

I hope everything works out for him. I think he was trying too hard. Fell sorry for an enemy, to be honest, no i don't.

I actually have felt sorry for the enemy as I could not help but to think that unless they change their ways they are going to be continually hurt. It is unfortunate that they do not realize the pain they cause until they actually get hurt. I wish your son a great deal of happiness, you never know bunny we might hear continual updates about little ones running around some day. Best of luck to you and your family.