missed being in a relationship

@carrine (2743)
Philippines
January 3, 2011 4:00pm CST
its been a while that i'am not a relationship. and its weird thing that i feel right now, because i missed the feeling with someone. i mean in a relationship LOL! and my daily routine is like, work, gym sometimes, then go home, then sleep, then go to work. i got bored honestly. but i cant see myself either in a relationship also, because i'am not used to it. do feel what i feel? hahahaa
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kun2349
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
4 Jan 11
haha =D That's what i feel at times too. How i wish i can break out of my everyday routine and be doing something new, especially with someone whom share the same interest as me.. haha =D But when i'm in a relationship, i'm feeling the same way too!! haha =D Isn't that contradicting?? haha I think it's better to stay this way than be involved in relationship. Because whenever we are bored, we can find companion. But when we are bored in a relationship, it means breaking up.. haha
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carrine
@carrine (2743)
• Philippines
11 Jan 11
HAHAHAHHA!!! true, sometimes being single is good because like what you've said we can do things that we want to and we can choose to as well. but when were in a relationship if we got bored usually we quarreled with our boyfriend or girlfriend. its complicated .. sighs
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kun2349
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
17 Jan 11
haha =D YEah! Just imagine how much damage, a person can do in our life.. lol =D
carrine
@carrine (2743)
• Philippines
18 Jan 11
yah. but if we will think of it, it helps us also to grow as a human being. and it helps of what and who we are now. we are a better and person and grown up person. i learned a lot from my experiences in life.
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zandi458
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
4 Jan 11
There are times in life when we are alone and lonely. But this phase of life will soon past and you'll find someone who will color your life once more. God always has someone meant for you and you only have to wait for the right time for him to strike. Take now as the time to prepare for the eventual happening.
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carrine
@carrine (2743)
• Philippines
11 Jan 11
i super like your post! it's so inspiring and its so reality. thanks for that znadie. you open my mind for that. hahahhaa
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zandi458
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
12 Jan 11
Hi carrine, thanks for the BR.
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maean_19
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
4 Jan 11
That is normal my friend. Everyone feels the same way. Perhaps, you missed the thrill feeling of having someone that inspires you and taking care of you.You missed the sweet memories. On one hand, you are contented not to be in a relationship.
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carrine
@carrine (2743)
• Philippines
11 Jan 11
hmmmm partly true. i missed being with someone who will text you and say "how are you?" have you eat your lunch and those stuff. and also spending time with the person, eating together , watching movie together and out of town thing. whew!
maezee
@maezee (41988)
• United States
19 Jan 11
I haven't been in a relationship.. for what feels like forever. I am single and have been for a while, and I definitely miss being with someone. But I am trying really hard to feel happy and independent. But some days, like on Valentine's Day (which is coming up..) I feel like it's going to be hard not to be a lonely pity party of one.
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carrine
@carrine (2743)
• Philippines
22 Jan 11
i wished that valentines day will be deleted in the calendar and in the minds of the people. because every time its valentines i am single. ever since i started committing till at my age now. grrrr!!! so i really wished that valentines day would be out in this world. LOL
freymind
@freymind (1351)
• Philippines
5 Jan 11
I felt that when I broke up with my ex of almost 6 years. I was single for a year before I got into a relationship again. I missed being with someone and knowing that there's someone who'll take care of you and give you undivided attention and time.
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carrine
@carrine (2743)
• Philippines
11 Jan 11
im glad that you were able to find a new love after the broke up. i am happy for you my friend. and wish you all the happiness in life.
yspmyl
@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
4 Jan 11
Yes, I miss those day when having a relationship and that were really happy moment and were all good and nice sweet memories. Every, things are going too routine and that is really boring where you wake up, go to work, go home, sleep and imagine you have to repeat the same things everyday. That is so terrible!
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carrine
@carrine (2743)
• Philippines
11 Jan 11
hahahha.. good thing you can relate on what's my dilemma..
tiagootani
@tiagootani (7)
• Brazil
3 Jan 11
Dear Carrine... It does sound boring. Still, I think everyone has had this kind of feeling at least once in their lives. Well, If I can give you a piece of advice it is: enjoy the opportunity of being free and single and come to Rio de Janeiro for Carnival!! I would't bet you'll find the man of your life, but sure it's gonna be a lot of fun!!!
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carrine
@carrine (2743)
• Philippines
3 Jan 11
hahahaha!!! ive tried to ride that one. i dont if were on the same page huh, but i ride a thing on carnival that make waaaaaaa!!!! in 10 minutes.. its fun actually but its like my stomach is empty then. LOL actually where i'am right now is okay, because there's complication its just that there are some point that you will feel bored.