nobody wants to be treated like crap

I said we can try our best but if some one don't Appreciate that or don't give a damn, So we should don't give a damn to

Hi. freymind. I agree with you. No one wants and deserves to be treated like crap at all. This is how I have felt about people that I went to school with. There are some girls that still think of me as "bad". They never liked me when I was in school, and they don't like me now. It is sad that I am treated like crap when I have never done anything to them. They dislike me so much because of the untrue rumors that they have heard about me from other students. Instead of them getting to know me for themselves, they believe everything negative that someone has said about me. Therefore, they treat me like crap in return because of it.

You are right that there is no one that is alive that wants to be treated like crap. That said, I think that we all face times in our lives that we encounter people that treat us like crap and when we are able to recognize those situations, the best thing that we can do is to move ourselves away from those people if it is possible. However, there are also times that the people that treat us badly are people that we are not able to remove ourselves from.

We cannot please and control the world. We need to make sure we can please ourselves. We can only put our best foot forward and be happy with what we did, whether others like it not. If we walk away knowing we did our best that is really all that matters, in my opinion.

I agree, nobody wants or likes to be treated like crap. We are all humans and we do make mistakes. When we done something wrong, we should not be condemned for life, instead we should be forgiven and allowed to move on. IF we don't want to be treated like crap, we should pull ourself together, start life anew, prove them wrong. It takes two hands to clap, just like a relationship.

A lot of it is me. That I can be the person they make me out to be. It's just much easier for people to make me out to be a bad person (and give me that glory) than -to make me out to be a GOOD person (much HARDER to give the glory it deserves).

Of course, dear.. That's why we are doing our best to be accepted, loved and appreciated. But, there are people that only God knows why they hate a person even if that persaon is doing its best to be a better and productive person. Somehow, there will always fault to be found to one another. There is always a reason to see negative things about a person no matter how noble his deeds are. We can never please and satisfy everybody. But keep on, one day, there'll be someone who will appreciate your true worth.

Hello Freymind, for me it doesn't matter what people think for my personality. The most important is what i think, what i feel and what my loved ones think for me. All others are just people who we meet, at some period they leave our life and we continue in our own way. Think positive and keep your mind open for useful things

Its no good trying to please everyone, you will just get hurt. If someone treats you badly then just walk away and forget about them. If thats impossible as its a work collegue of you boss then try to ignore them. If you rise to their insults then they will do it all the more. the thing that really puts them off their stride is when you are nicer than nice to them back and they can't understand why your not angry. Its really difficult to do but often they change their attitude. Life is so short ...why waste it on people who dont deserve your time. If they are still awful to you..just get out. I refuse to stress about other people anymore. Its not fair.

Unfortunately for me it was my own father that made me feel that way. He always told me over & over that I would never amount to anything, that I was stupid, & lets not forget ugly. I could go on & on, but I wont. For years & years I believed that(still do sometimes), but then I met my husband & for the first time in my whole life someone(besides my Mother)made me feel like I was so much more then nothing.