If it takes to leave it all behind. I`d do everything..to have a PEACE of MIND..

Hello Joy, I hope you won't get offended with what I am about to tell you but your ex really doesn't care about you. You are just a back up to him in case his current girlfriend will leave him. Don't waste your time on that guy.

Love, it can definitely play tricks on you . Personally if I were you, I would try to avoid any contact with him, if he calls ignores his calls, if he passes by the house don't answer the door or have someone answer the door and say you're not home. If he says he misses you and still loves, then why the hell did he move on so quickly and find someone else. I have been in that same situation, what I learned is that guys kind of enjoy the thrill of the chase, when you make it difficult is when they start to show more interest. Like I said ignore for a few weeks, if it's meant to be he'll comeback, if it's not then atleast you have forgotten about him. For me it when both ways on different occassions, one of them I am currently married to and deeply in love with and have a beautiful family . The other guy, was a jerk, he basically just wanted to keep me as an extra just in case it didn't work with the girl he was with, he could come back to me, but ofcourse at first I was like you, I still had feelings for him and felt that he was being sincere, but I guess you can say I just got sick of it and asked myself why should I waste my time on something that's not worth it and I decided to just move on. Let it go, like I said if it's meant to be he will come back to you...

hi joygracia OH my don't wasteryour love on this jerk who betrayed you, the person you loved is not the person he is now, forget him and make some moves to go on with your life. If he could this to you with no regrets at all, you are wasting your love on a scoundrel. If his love had been as deep as yours he would never have cheated. Do not let him ruin anymore of your life, you deserve to find someone who can really love you and be faithful to you. Cross him off of your mind and heart.good luck God bless.

My advice to you is to cut all contact with this guy and don’t see him ever again! You will not move on if you continue to see him and keep on having your feelings hurt time and time again! I know how difficult it can be to get over someone who had a big place in your heart but for your own wellbeing you must stand firm and get him out of your life…

I like the idea when you said that you'd just leave everything behind for you to just move on. I did that before but you have to consider that you may be, again that is a maybe, escaping the feeling. It maybe disguised as tryin to move on but the truth is that you are only trying to forget him. Forgetting and moving on are different things. please do keep that in mind.

Joy the best thing for you to do is move on with your life. If you continue to give up on your life you will be left behind.I think he does this because he has you in a weak spot which you need to get out of, you have to be strong and learn to stand on your own two feet. You should say what you mean and mean what you say or else you will be in deep stress. Let the guy know that its your time to shine and you have seen the light and it i shining on you brightly so its time for you to get out here and have some fun, enjoy life.