Am I in LOVE??
By Jevendiran
@Jevendiran (778)
India
January 7, 2011 8:22pm CST
I met a girl last month. She had studied with me till some 6th standard. Then she left the school. After a long time I met her last month. Since then we are chatting over phone, texting, facebook... She just considers me as a friend. But I feel strange. I feel like she's the girl I've been looking for. She's so childish and cute... So admirable.. I cant explain everything here just by some text...
I like girls who are so jovial but at the same time well disciplined. She's one such girl... It's my wish that the girl I love turns into a cute little baby whom I can love and take care of... Though it sounds crazy it's my wish. Coz, you can show infinite love only to a baby. All other relationships have their own restrictions. This girl is already like a cute little baby. So innocent and loving.. Yesterday she cried over phone due to some problem. It disturbed me sooooo much that I couldn't sleep even in class!!
It's not that I'll be happy if she's there in my life. I don't think that way. I feel like I should be there for her, to take care of her that she's never cries again in her life.. I wish to hold her deep in my heart and protect her from anything and everything...
AM I IN LOVE???
Friends, please help me... If you think I'm in love with her, please help me to make her to fall in love with me. Coz, she's so stubborn that she'll never fall in love and she'll marry the only the guy chosen by her parents... Please help me!!!
It's not that I'll be happy if she's there in my life. I don't think that way. I feel like I should be there for her, to take care of her that she's never cries again in her life.. I wish to hold her deep in my heart and protect her from anything and everything...
AM I IN LOVE???
Friends, please help me... If you think I'm in love with her, please help me to make her to fall in love with me. Coz, she's so stubborn that she'll never fall in love and she'll marry the only the guy chosen by her parents... Please help me!!!2 people like this
10 responses
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
8 Jan 11
yes you are in love^^ and is so cute the way you talk about her. i can see that you really love her and would do everything to make her happy. im sure that she would feel so happy if she read what you wrote about her here. it reminded me of myself bcs im a girl and im so childish i really act like a baby sometimes and my family always say for me to act like a woman but i like to be like that^^ i like to be childish and dont take life so serious bcs if i think about life deeply and with
probs i have i know i will feel sad so i rather act childish and happy bcs that way i feel happy^^ and can enjoy life better. im happy that you value her and i wish that a guy can value me too even im childish too^^ for her to love you dont worry just be sweet and caring to her^^ we girls love caring and sweet boys that makes us feel happy and protected^^ im sure she will love you as long as you be there for her always even more when she is sad to comfort her^^
if you need some advises just message me and will be great to me to help you ^^
if you need some advises just message me and will be great to me to help you ^^2 people like this
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
18 Jan 11
thank you too^^ how are things with you and that girl? is she falling for you? dont lose hope if you feel that she isnt. just be sweet to her. that way im sure that if she feels she can count on you she will love you^^ you like her a lot and im sure that she will see that^^ we girls can feel if a guy really like us or not. if he doesnt like us we will know but if he likes we will also know. im sure that she will like you bcs sweet guys like you are rare.
@Harold_ks (1673)
•
8 Jan 11
Yes, obviously you like her, and it's now turning to love. I can say you are on the right track buddy. You are so lucky that you can able to communicate and even meet her. Just continue what you are doing but don't rush things. As for now, just be contented that you can communicate and you are close, sharing laughters and problems. Just continue treating her as your baby and always be there for her especially when she has a problem. You are still on stage of being friends but sooner or later, that friendship will be developed into a more promising stage, the thing called love. Well, good luck on both of you, just stay nice and sweet to her, and what matters now is you two are happy with the presence of each other. Maybe you two be destined to be married to each other. Have a great day! Happy myLotting!
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
8 Jan 11
hello,
Probably you are in love with her.
But you must be sure with your feelings.
And better let her know about it.
If the feeling is mutual,good for you...if not...be prepared for it.
Love is sweet,but painful sometimes.
Have a great weekend
@Jevendiran (778)
• India
9 Jan 11
Thank you, friend. Thanks for your advice. Have a nice day!!
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
8 Jan 11
yes i did..i fell in love and was hurt ...
but,i never regretted falling in love
Welcome to mylot and enjoy myloting
Welcome to mylot and enjoy myloting1 person likes this
@dollar3235 (2062)
• India
8 Jan 11
Dude, all good girls have same problem initially. Actually, at this age even they do not have idea of love and life. Just like you are confused whether it is love or not, even she will have her confusion. That is why she thinks that way which is good. This shows that she is a responsible member of her family.
Whatever you have described here, I would say, this is what true love is.
If you ignore your feelings now, you will end up screwing up your life. I know people do not realize initially but it is not something where you have an option. You will have to make her understand about your feelings, this will make both of you happy, otherwise, I don't know about her but you will regret every moment of your life.
Ask yourself one question, how many people are there in this world who think like the way you think about her. I hope you have the answer now, don't you?
Have patience, take some time, make sure that she understands your importance in her life and I am sure words will not be required to express your feelings 
@T3chMast3r (83)
• Philippines
8 Jan 11
hey there! i think you really have a big problem here. But it all depends to that girl if she let her parents decide on who she must spend the rest of her life with. Maybe now she's still immature to decide on some serious things like marriage. But if she gets a little older and can decide on her own and what's best for her, then i think that will be the time we can say she has matured. but right now, friendly advise from your co-mylot, just be there for her. make her feel she is special and being loved, make her fall for you inch by inch, then maybe soon, you find yourselves in love with each other. Good luck to you friend! cheers!
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@Jevendiran (778)
• India
8 Jan 11
Thanks, friend. Thanks for your advice. I'll now make her understand my love rather than expressing it!!
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@adietz08 (8)
• Indonesia
8 Jan 11
You feel so so fell in love because every day there is no word for thinking of him constantly approach him, and feel so it's best for him, because I also experience like that, to the rear end problem, which is important attempted first. so good luck.....
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@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
10 Jan 11
Jevendiran,
You are a good man, but a good man doesn't guarantee you a lasting relationship. In fact, regardless of the position we are standing at, nothing guarantees you an eternal love - it's all a matter of choice.
I suppose she has realized that at this current moment of life - she needs a boyfriend, not yet a husband. Hence, from the journey before it reaches that destination, a boyfriend is a role you must fulfill to keep this relationship alive. Surely, you are a nice guy, but your quality is ONLY perfect when she has arrived at that destination, but not exactly the journey towards that goal.
She may have tried to retain you emotionally, despite lacking the passion for you and the relationship because in love, people are ten times more fearful of regrets than rejection. She probably feared that the kind of security you readily offered to her is unavailable elsewhere and that might be lost forever if she has decided to give it away.
Well, thank goodness to in that confused state of emotions, she has decided to stick to her decision and not allow this fear to create more complication.
So, I say bestow her the freedom - let her fly high and go.
If it was meant to be, it will be.
Take care.
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
8 Jan 11
Hi friend only I can say to you is talk to her and tell her what your feeling with her. Don't wait until she fall in love with you because may be it is too late. So better act now... At least you know what your next move. Regarding her parent to arrange her marriage a little bit danger on that - unless you found out that she love you also and willing to against her parent will. I hope you can doing right away... see you around
@Jevendiran (778)
• India
9 Jan 11
Thanks for the advice, friend. Have a nice day!
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@filip8901 (31)
• Slovenia
10 Jan 11
When you fall in-love... that's a strong emotion created by a humans mind, it lasts for the short time (2-3 months) and it isn't the same as to love someone (You can love someone for eternity)... Being in love is different... Consider waiting for few months and you'll quickly understand if this is the person which you see by your side or if it was just a strong temporary emotion... AND ALWAYS REMEMBER, THE CLOSEST FEELING TO LOVE, IS TO HATE! there ain't nothing worse than giving strong feelings to someone and not to recieve them back... I understand your pain... and the best thing you can do about it, is to meet her in person and tell her the truth... ¨Wish you the best and that it's the true love :D
@Jinglypuff (5)
•
9 Jan 11
awww that is so sweet, if this is not love then I don't know what is. Hey jevan why don't you try to tell her how you feel there is nothing wrong in loving someone and in your case I cant see anything that would make her reject you. I'll give a tip we girls always go for confidence and sincerity so just be confident and be sincere in what you do ^_^
arrange marriage? really who does that anymore this day. I thought this only happens in movies and tv nowadays...
on a side note don't in class that would get you in trouble lol
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@Jevendiran (778)
• India
9 Jan 11
Nope! I can't tell her now. She'll try to convince me.. advice me... Let me wait for some time!!
