Confusions
By meerat75
@meerat75 (111)
January 9, 2011 6:06am CST
We may have to take decisieve decisions at many times. Some may be with great important or some may come with less importance. There are crucial as well as having high relvevance. In many occasions we will be much confused what decision to take or how to approach with the issue or the decisons we have taken is appropriate or not.
How do you handle such situations? Get some expert opinion or your own way? The final decisions what you taken earlier are ok or you felt bad after sometime. What you suggest, that we shold go for a second opinion for such matters and will it help if it is confidential or private? What is your method of approach?
Your experites please.
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5 responses
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
9 Jan 11
Hi meerat,
My way is when in doubt, ask - family members, friends, anyone whom you can ask for suggestions. Collect those pointers, think and assess yourself on those suggestions - in terms of - can you handle the things if you follow their suggestions - then if you can go ahead. if not, re-ask.
But if things are critical and it is an emergency where you need to take a decision right away, stay calm, think twice and decide.
In any case do NOT regret what you did - that regret is the worst thing that can shatter you anytime. So once done, I dont think about what if... I have had a hell of that... not any more.
ps: It is my way as I mentioned, if you think you can use it go ahead but at your own risk.
Cheers,
theSids.
@meerat75 (111)
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9 Jan 11
Hi,
Yes, here everyone has their own style of doing. However, if someone comes with an issue and ask for an opinion, people will come up with the best solution. However, if it can be discussed with others, we should do it. Also, as you said, to an extent our family or friends can resolve and their opinion would be always touching and genuine, as we knwo them each other.
Also, now there is myLot around, we can discuss, Na??
Meera
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
10 Jan 11
For me if you think it is best to do in your life go for it because many are doing that so that there pain in there heart might be vain but more important is the know everything is Jehovah God so better that you confess in him.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
9 Jan 11
So if the decision you have to make with great importance, you might want to consult someone you can trust and give a reasonable advice for you to consider. Sometimes, if you have confidence on your own, you can make that decision yourself, because hopefully you will trust yourself, and you will make the right decision. That is what I think is right for you.
@gaboni (644)
• Israel
9 Jan 11
Never hurts to hear a second or a third opinion- Just don't forget that eventually it only matters what you decide. For example:
You should not pick someone's advice just because he said that its a good option- you have to be sincere to yourself, if although your friends recommends you doing something, and you think its wrong then you should go for what you believe is right.
In conclusion, I believe that you should hear what other people think, friends or some expertise, don't "close the doors" to yourself.
@meerat75 (111)
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16 Jan 11
Hi,
What you said is correct. Do not accept all, as it is recommended by somebody. We should have our own view and opinion on all subjects. Getting opinion or choice is good but a final decision should be considering all and it can be total independent from everything and should be appropriate, who's ever the decision it must be.
Meera
@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
9 Jan 11
Well in my family we consult with each member of the family by calling an group meeting in which all of us give opinions. My elder brother who is also head of our family announce the decision on which majority of the family members agreed. So mostly decision is count collective Family decision. Whatever happen after that, We all own that decision even it was wrong or right.
@meerat75 (111)
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9 Jan 11
Hi,
Yes, when we are living in a group, we can aske them about the matter or find the resolution from others which make more sense. If it is not appropriate to discuss among the family members, we can consult with friends or close trusted people those we have and it make more attached and bonding too.
Thanks for your comments.
Meera
