Do you prefer to live as joint family or Separate after Marriage ?
By isloooboy
@isloooboy (1733)
United Arab Emirates
6 responses
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
9 Jan 11
hello isloooboy,
If i will get married i prefer to be separated but i want to be near to our family but not living in a same house, i want to be separated to them for a reason that i want to keep our privacy and no IN LAWS both side will interfere to any decision we are going to make.
happy posting
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@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
9 Jan 11
yah privacy you know me i don't want them to see something that will shocked them .
miss yah
@PDBME2 (1014)
• United States
9 Jan 11
Is living as a joint family to be without other family members? I think it's better to live separate from other family members because it can create problems in your marriage. I think marriage is hard enough without having other family members seeing every argument or private moment. If I had to do it because it needed to be done then I would do it.
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@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
10 Jan 11
Fair enough I think, there must be some sort of privacy and independance
@koolstud (62)
• India
9 Jan 11
Yep.. living separate will be the better of the two because after marriage you have a whole lot of responsibilities,personal life which can be better taken care of is you live separate with your newly formed family.sounds selfish ...but that is how the world is ..!!
In this fast moving world people seldom find time to keep in touch with their relatives..but whenever he/she finds time he/she should visit them or at least keep in touch ;given the wide means of electronic communication media, that has got damn easy.It inherently gives man the lasting happiness & satisfaction.
But nuclear families indeed are the modern day solution keeping in mind the demand of the era.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
9 Jan 11
hi,
I prefer to live separately.
I want to feel the freedom...no one to check on what time i woke up,or what time i sleep.
It is always good to live separately from in-laws and family.
Besides,it is a must to live independently and to learn the responsibilities of building a new home/family of your own.
Have a good day always
@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
10 Jan 11
I appreciate the part of building a new home and family of our own
@laniekins (4579)
• Philippines
9 Jan 11
If I'm gonna get married I prefer to live separately, I want to start my family by me and my husband alone. I want to make it as my own but I know that I will always be needing their help.
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@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
12 Jan 11
hi,
most of people who get married will choose to separate with their parents,
especially those female/wife, they will separate with her parents,
and go with her husband.
the others will separate because they already have new responsibilities with their new family...