Being frugal is not the same as being poor.
By marguicha
@marguicha (223720)
Chile
January 9, 2011 9:39pm CST
I have often seen that people think that being frugal is a synonym for being poor. I think it´s just the opposite: you are frugal so you don´t get even near the experience of poverty.
I feel that being frugal has to do with using all our capacities to live the best we can. That often means living a lot better than many people who earn more money than we do.
I eat very well because I have learnt to cook gourmet foods using leftovers, bits of this and that, cooking from scratch, not buying canned food, discovering unexpensive appetisers and so on.
I can show off a "new" outfit by buying a pair of pants in a sale and wearing with tops that have at least 20 years.
I can feel generous when giving presents made by my own hands for Christmas and birthdays.
How do you feel abour frugality? Are you frugal? What do you do to save in some items? Share!
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23 responses
@happythoughts (4109)
• United States
7 Feb 11
I though frugal was poor until I tried it. When I got married I saved money because I had to and now I save money because I get to. If I had never learned to save the money in the first place we would never be able to afford the little luxuries in life we have now that we think are worth it. I think frugality has a lot of different blessings that come with it too. We rarely eat out of a box so our food is healthier and better for us. We buy in bulk so if I get to tired to shop I dont have to. When I was pregnant with my kids I eneded up in bed for 6-7 months. We didnt have to shop once durring that time because I had stocked up so much ( My Mom delivered milk to us every other week since my Hubbs couldnt live with out it). I think living frugal is more of a freedom.
@marguicha (223720)
• Chile
7 Feb 11
I loved your response. It has the true meaning of what frugality is. I travel to besutiful places thanks to my frugality!
@marguicha (223720)
• Chile
7 Feb 11
Hi doggy,
There´s a lot of everyday savings that as soon as you start with them, they are soon automated. A minimal thing is to turn off the lights and TV when you leave a room. It DOES bring your bill down. I could name a thousand small things.
@doggydimon (1369)
• Philippines
7 Feb 11
I think I have to start being frugal now if I want to achieve my goal of traveling like you my friend. It wouldn't be easy for me but it is worth a try. hahaha...
@Monkeyrose (2840)
• Canada
2 Feb 11
I very much agree with you for the mostpart. A lot of people become and maintain being wealthy by being frugal. I also think that we have lost a lot of practical skills we used to have. We used to be able to do everything outselves. Now we just throw everything out when it breaks. This is extremely hard on the environment. We are wasting resources, consuming energy, and contributing to global warming every time we purchase and throw something out. You may not realize this but it sounds like you really help the environment.
Well right now I don't have many expenses. I get free room and board where I work right now.
1.I have my car insurance cancelled right now and save money on that.
2.I cancelled my cellphone. I just use the phone in my room and calling cards for long distance.
3.I drew out a strict budget and plan to maintain it.
4.I wash my clothes by hand and hang dry them to save money from the laundrymat.
5.I shut down my debit account and opened a cheaper one. I make large payments to my credit card at once and then use the credit card to purchase things. The credit card also gets my frequent flyer miles.
@marguicha (223720)
• Chile
6 Feb 11
Hi monkeyrose,
You have done exactly the same things I have to save money. And I´m not poor. I shut down my debit card after I discovered that I only used it once a month to get some cash. Now I write a bigger cheque to the gas deliverer and I have enough month for the little things where the credit card is not accepted. I use my credit card as you do and also earn money for my air tickets. The only difference is that I wash most of my clothes in my washing machine. I wait until it is full and wash when the weather is ok so it can be dried or at least almost. At night I hang the clothes in my bathroom.
There are lots of ways to be frugal. As I am frugal, I can travel every year with month I have saved.
Take care!
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
14 Jan 11
Being frugal is important in this day and age...to me it's the absolute opposite of being wasteful. There is way too much waste these days. People buy more than they need and throw away the surplus, much of it unused. I've done it myself when I have had more money than what I'm used to. I have bought too much food and then it has gone off before I have had a chance to eat it or make something with it to freeze.
Or I have bought clothing because I liked it. Just grabbed my size then come home and found that it looks ridiculous on me so it sits, unworn in my cupboard.
I'm now back to having very little and finding it hard to be frugal. Being frugal means needing to economise with money and items. I need to be more careful with my meagre resources and purchases.
@marguicha (223720)
• Chile
7 Jun 11
Hi friend,
I am answering some old posts and came upon yours. I also used to throw away a lot, specially food. Now I know better and make wonders with leftovers. I have cut my grocery bill in more than half and still eat very nice meals.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
13 Jan 11
I agree that being frugal not only does not mean one is poor it is also very different from being cheap. The way I see it, it is hard work to earn money and a darn shame to waste it. If I had a lot of money I would probably still be careful with it even if it meant donating the excess. I often buy clothing and other items from charity op shops where I can obtain a great bargain while helping others in need.
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@marguicha (223720)
• Chile
6 Feb 11
I absolutly agree with you, paula. I commented on an answer where the mylotter placed in the same basket frugalitly and being stingy. I replied: "I don´t think stingy is the same as being frugal. A stingy person is horrified of spending for anything, even if it is needed. A frugal person rationalises what is needed and uses his/her resources in a good way".
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@lisa0502 (1724)
• Canada
25 Jan 11
I am a frugal person but because we do not have alot of money. We do have enough to pay bills and such but not alot left over. We shop at alot of thrift stores here. I do not see a reason why we need all the expensive clothing when second hand can be just as good for less. We also shop at the less expensive stores and buy alot of the store brand products.
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
10 Jan 11
Hi Marguicha, I am not known as a frugal person.
My reputation is being calculative. I think that is worse than being known for frugality.
Whenever someone buys a new dress, I start to ask about the cost, and start to question how long the dress would last.
For example, when a colleague buys a new dress for $30. I would ask how many times she intends to wear that dress. 30 times in a year? or 60 times in a year? How many years does she intend the dress to last.
Then I will do a mental calculation to arrive at an average cost per wear.
I think that is a good approach. But they are heartily sick of me.
That is the way I buy most things, including handbags, shoes and other necessities in life.
The only exception is food. If the fruits and vegetables are fresh and are organic produces, I will definitely pay more. I think it is better to eat fresh than to eat junk food.
The future medical bill will not be that high.
@marguicha (223720)
• Chile
10 Jan 11
For me being frugal sometimes means paying more. I have just bought online a wonderful swimming suit for my vacations. It was an expensive suit made in the same place that my last one was made. My last swimming suit has lasted me for 6 years and it is still good. Besides, there are few one piece nice swimming suits for ladies my size. So I´m paying more but I´ll have something good that will last many years.
I bought more dishes when I discovered I saved a lot by washing the dishes in the dishwasher. BUT the dishwasher should be full. That extra money I spent was quickly payd back. The machine does a lot of the work with less detergent, saves water, doesn´t warm hands with running hor water and the dishes can dry there.
I like good food but I use all leftovers.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
12 Jan 11
Not frugal enough, but I do like it when I get a good coupon or a good price on something...
@dodo19 (47336)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
7 Jun 11
It is true what you have to say. When you think about it, it is true that being frugal doesn't necessarily mean that you're poor. It just means that you're trying to save, and that you're trying not to spend a lot of money. It doesn't really have to do with being poor. It has more to do with saving.
@marguicha (223720)
• Chile
7 Jun 11
I am more rational when I buy so I can save money to have some small luxuries that make my life a lot more pleasant.
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
13 Jan 11
I agree with you completely. I like being frugal too, it keeps us creative and clever! Not only saving us money and saving resources for the future. I think each thing we do, has a lot more thought into it that it also give a lot of meaning.
@marguicha (223720)
• Chile
7 Jun 11
Besides saving a lot on grocery and electricity bills, I often make dishes from leftovers that are better than the fisrt idea.
@strawberrychocodahi (4818)
• Philippines
10 Jan 11
Being frugal does not mean you are poor but for most people, they already thought that being frugal or stingy seems to keep their money clasp too much on their hands. I really don't wish to be stingy or frugal to people who are in need. I don't have any problem to give as long as I really have the money to give.
Although if there is really no money, we tend to save what we can and skip the best of available buys in the market. if someone would come and ask for help, we can just offer what we can as long as we don't leave the person zero for coming. I don't need to be seasonal in giving. I still pray to God that He will enable me to have enough so that I can give more.
@marguicha (223720)
• Chile
10 Jan 11
I like your way of seeing this, jak. Different cultures have (fortunatly) different ways of approaching everyday situations. And that diversity is enriching. In my country it is normal to dry our clothes in the sun. Dryers are only used by few people. And canned food is not much used: be usually cook from scratch. It is a more frugal living yet it shows that we do a lot to live better as it´s not given free.
@mhypie03 (683)
• Philippines
10 Jan 11
Being frugal especially for those rich people would mean a great sense of value for what they have instead of putting it into waste when the rest of the world is starving. It would also give everyone the benefit of saving and/or investing more for the future having to avoid regret if ever you have not done so.
@marguicha (223720)
• Chile
10 Jan 11
I always put together frugality with not throwing away something that is useful. It sound sinful (if one may put it that way) to throw things away while other people lack so many goods. If we use our share and no more, the other can also have theirs.
@mhypie03 (683)
• Philippines
11 Jan 11
Back at home, we used to be like that. But after being flooded last 2009 where water almost drowned our house we realized that a lot of our things should have been given away. They say that if you don't use things or wear clothes within a year, it should be given away. While it can free a lot of space in your home. As for frugality, I rarely buy branded clothes, shoes and bags. If I do, at most times they are discounted. My bf and I now practices to dine on cheap fancy restaurants to save up more money. Most of all, I choose to invest my other savings on insurances, retirement fund, stocks etc so when I'm old, I can live a confortable life not worrying about anything.
@marguicha (223720)
• Chile
6 Feb 11
I don´t think stingy is the same as being frugal. A stingy person is horrified of spending for anything, even if it is needed. A frugal person rationalises what is needed and uses his/her resources in a good way
@marguicha (223720)
• Chile
10 Jan 11
If I didn´t live frugally, I could not spend my online earnings on vacations. And this year ii´s 2 weeks at Aruba. The tickets are already bought.
@cutepenguin (6431)
• Canada
10 Jan 11
I think it's good to be frugal. I don't think it's a sign of being poor, although if you're poor it becomes more important to be frugal. By being frugal as well as trying to increase my income, we've gotten out of debt this past year - but we're going to keep being frugal so that we can be even better off financially. It's also better for the environment if you use things up or reuse things.
@marguicha (223720)
• Chile
10 Jan 11
I´m very glad and I congratulate you!If everyone did as you do, this world would be a lot nicer in many ways. I believe that when you learn how to use money, you also give money its proper place in your life as you are not desperate for it. Then you can also live a fuller life!
@GreenMoo (11833)
•
26 Jan 11
I could not agree with you more!
I am a frugal person currently out of necessity, but I think I would continue these frugal habits even if money became more plentiful. I don't feel deprived, because by living frugally it allows me to have more of the things I really want. In my case that's primarily time.
@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
10 Jan 11
I think frugality is a good thing and I agree it is not about being poor, it is about keeping yourself from becoming poor by living wisely and carefully. I cook every meal myself. We rarely go out to eat and when we do we are careful about what we spend or use gift cards that I have earned on line. I also make a lot of my own cleaners that I use at home and I only put clothes in the dryer for a few minutes and then I hang them to finish drying.
@marguicha (223720)
• Chile
10 Jan 11
Those things add up and suddenly you discover that you live a lot better than you thought you would because saving has become second nature to you. Congratulations!
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
10 Jan 11
The immediate thing that comes to mind for me is that I do a lot of my shopping at Goodwill and also at children's consignment stores (and yard sales during the warmer months of the year). I love doing this because there are a lot of people that buy things brand new and maybe wear them once before discarding of those things. I am a person that likes to let other people take the hit in depreciation. I also like to make my own gifts and I love cooking at home. Just because I don't spend a lot of money definitely does not mean that I am poor.
@marguicha (223720)
• Chile
10 Jan 11
I always say that I don´t spend much but I live like a princess! The word "leftover" for me is a way to start makin my imagination fly. And you are so right about clothes: you can get beautiful things that you wouldn´t be able to buy new at those stores. It´s just a matter of keeking your eyes nad mind open.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
10 Jan 11
yes, i truly agree with you that being frugal doesn't mean you are poor. What i can say is that you are just being practical.
I myself is a frugal person. I don't buy expensive things if i can buy them of almost the same quality but of cheaper price.
For my lunch, i would bring some left-overs from our breakfast or from dinner, which i would place in the fridge, set aside in my lunch container already. That way, i can save so that i can still buy some things i would love to have for myself or for the family. Anyways, what we cook for dinner are the most loved viands hence i would like it to have again for lunch.
@marguicha (223720)
• Chile
10 Jan 11
I know what you mean. I don´t throw away any leftover and I have learned to cook wonderful things with them. Many of my leftovers end up in gorgeous gourmet omelettes with just the adition of a couple of eggs. That, and a couple of lettuce leaves, can make an awesome lunch.
@Ichiru101 (284)
• United States
21 Feb 11
I agree with you. I do not feel the need to go out and buy the first pair of clothes you see every new season. Rather I am perfectly fine with buy alot more for the same cost near the end of the season. It is a good way to save on Christmas present and ect.