would you be afraid if other people say they dream bad about you?
By djmarion
@djmarion (4898)
Philippines
January 10, 2011 7:20am CST
I know it's weird but i got a little disturb when a colleague told me he dreamt about me- the dream according to her is a bad one - she said she saw me in her dream pregnant and about to give birth but when they saw the baby it has defect or at least not at normal. It really freaked me a little since i just got married and my husband and i are really trying to have a baby but i then i know that dreams are not meant to be real and besides why would my baby be with defect if i will take good care of him on my womb in case i got pregnant right?
We are Christians and so my husband just laugh at that idea because he never believe on any of that bad dreams and i know he is right, we are God-fearing couple so we know that God will not allow any bad thing to happen on our baby.
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4 responses
@srmailtosr (425)
• India
10 Jan 11
dear djmarion,
Now you are talking of some kind of superstitions existing in some parts of the world. No i don't believe in such kinds of things. I too dreampt of my friends in good and bad way.But that doesn't mean that the dream for me will come true. It may happens. But it's just coincidence.Every one in this world has his own reasons to live . For that he has to go through several life scenes.These scenes can be imaginated by somebody or ourselves. It's some kind of mind work.Don't be afraid of anything.Just go forward in your usual way .Everybody has his own life scenes-it can be good, bad,or worst.But definitely come to you.No one can stop it.
@admiral_ace (35)
• Philippines
11 Jan 11
Hi. Do not ignore dreams because all dreams have meanings. But the best is that only the dreamer can interpret the dream because you are the owner of the dream. Do not be afraid because the baby in your dream is just a symbol. A symbol in you. And a symbol is a picture which tells a thousand words. It may mean of your desire to have one. It may also mean a new beginning in your life full of challenges. Sometimes the defect may mean of your overly concern that it may happen to your baby. It also serves as a reminder that since you want to have one, take good care of yourself and eat the right food in order not to have such.
@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
10 Jan 11
I dreamt once that I saw a baby boy and another time I looked in a mirror I saw a girl with really white hair. I did have some miscarriages after I married, so it could have been one of my babies in Heaven, but do not know. Sometimes dreams are wishes and sometimes it is life sorting itself and sometimes it is visions of the future or a mixture of all of that.
I would not worry about it. Since you and your husband are Christians, even evil thoughts by others will not harm you. And she may have been worried and figured that because you are having a hard time getting pregnant that perhaps if you did bear a child it would not be right.
I went through that. I often thought if I prayed r"God I want to get pregnant and do not care if the baby is handicapped or not," that the only children I would have got would be severely disabled.
And that hurt more.
@intrepidus (34)
• Canada
11 Jan 11
If it was me, I won't really be afraid about it. But then again, it is good to be aware of things around you if such thing causes any effect to you emotional state. It is always good to be alert. =)