Holy Snap Attack!

Ahh yes kinda the same thing for me. Not just on Mylot but other networks as well. You can find out a lot from a person just by how they speak to someone they have never met. When it happened to me it felt like high school drama, but no drama just the straight up attitude. It was like I had directed that particular discussion, comment, to these individuals. Simply when someone makes a mistake, I do feel that yes they should be corrected, but not with such attitude.

I say that sisters and brothers can have a lot of problems sometimes. Not everyone gets along with their siblings for various reasons. My sister and I do not get along at all. I don't know why but she always had a goal to make my life a living H*LL. Since I was a child there has been name calling, jealousy, games being played on me, verbal and physical abuse, and much more. I used to come home from school and get in trouble for things that I had no idea what they were about. We physically fist fought a few times over who got the car that night to who left the dog out over night. Every time I got in trouble I would be grounded or punished with more chores. I think it was her way of bossing me around through my parents. I would get her chores, and her duties around the house and she would get away with it. (I can just imagine her evil witch laugh now.) It changed my relationship with my parents because they thought I was trouble. They treated me like this demon child. I always had a early curfew, was never trusted, and much more. I moved out when I was 15 years old and things started to change. I don't suggest that for everyone since everyone is different. I suggest staying at home as long as you possibly can. For many different reasons. I don't know why exactly that things started to change between me and my parents, but they did. They treated me differently and started listening to me. Now that I'm older and I talk to my mother about different things, she understands me and always says shes sorry for being so blind about it. She honestly believed that I was troubled, and just thought the doctors couldn't figure it out. They even sent me to psychiatrist, therapists and councilors, but I wouldn't talk to them the same way I would when I started doing this on my own. So it has taken me a bit to get over all that, by talking to doctors and other people that have gone through the same things. Since I was over it I recently became engaged and thought I would ask my sister to be in the wedding party. She then told me that she couldn't afford it, couldn't take that kinda time off work and that it would be to much trouble for her to get fitted and what not. Now I see her facebook status stating shes going to Montreal this coming week, shes booked her Mexican travels for this coming March, and yada yada. Now I didn't expect her to hope on a plane and come get fitted, my wedding isn't till 2012. So I figure that was the end of that. Once I seen those status's I decided I was not going to "try" with her anymore. That doesn't mean I will ignore her but I defiantly wont be the first to speak anymore. I can honestly say I "hate" my sister.

Ahh yes flippin the bird. I just did that and aimed it right at the monitor! ( not to you of course! )

I can relate to this! I hate the money topic. I have been stolen from, borrowed from, loaned from, cheated from and everything that involves money. I honestly hate when people can not commit to things like say paying someone back. If you can't I will understand, just talk to me and work something out. I am very fair. You could pay me 10 bucks a year and I would be happy. If you stole from me, tell me yourself before I find out, pay me back, give it back, or leave my life. I do not need people who steal from me and are dishonest about it. People that owe money always seem to have a hard time talking to me. I don't know why but they sure do. But I have always been able to get back what is mine from most people. There is only a few that still owe me something. One of which is court ordered, and just over the three thousand mark. That was for a car that was stolen from me and the person had admitted it during court. But that was years ago and still have not received a penny from it. I do have to go back and have that garnished but I am waiting until its worth it to me. and in your words, " simply wont ever deal with him again"