Did you start love before marriage or after marriage with your life partner?
By isloooboy
@isloooboy (1733)
United Arab Emirates
10 responses
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
15 Jan 11
hi,
im still single now, but i think it will start first to love before the marriage,
there are some peoplw who start first the marriage before love,
but most i know person they start at love.
because each partner know first if they will survive for their love,
and if they are sincere now to each other, then they will plan for a marriage.
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
15 Jan 11
Most of the girls can talk with others friendly.
But they have real on her father before marriage.
And
After she loved her husband, then she loved her children.
Because The girl is queen to her husband, but princes to her father.
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
11 Jan 11
The present society filled with the persons like, "love somebody, marriage somebody",,, its not depends upon various factors.
Education, goals, finance, family situation, teenage mistakes....
hahaha...
what a life it is?
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@neerajagrawl (58)
• India
11 Jan 11
actually love does not depend on marriage. it depends on attraction toward someone. so if you love someone you should marry only to that person. or if you have already married then don't give your attention other then your spouse.
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@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
15 Jan 11
Question was very simple and the answer requirement was Yes or No but I think I admire your honesty and devotion towards the love one :D
@somnathsen (129)
• India
12 Jan 11
"Love before Marriage or After Marriage this two are succesful.the first sitution is useful when you love a girl and she is being married by you or you are in alove marrige..and the second sitution is capabiale when you done a arrange marrige. as if as where you will had benn love to your wife..because if it is not you are in danger...............
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@somnathsen (129)
• India
12 Jan 11
"Love before Marriage or After Marriage this two are succesful.the first sitution is useful when you love a girl and she is being married by you or you are in alove marrige..and the second sitution is capabiale when you done a arrange marrige. as if as where you will had benn love to your wife..because if it is not you are in danger...............
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@somnathsen (129)
• India
12 Jan 11
"Love before Marriage or After Marriage this two are succesful.the first sitution is useful when you love a girl and she is being married by you or you are in alove marrige..and the second sitution is capabiale when you done a arrange marrige. as if as where you will had benn love to your wife..because if it is not you are in danger...............
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@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
20 Jan 11
SO what you think what will you choose in these both ?
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
23 Apr 11
It all depends in your culture , traditions and your expectations. Here in the States we are Taught that you First fall in love and then you marry. many think once you stop loving one another , the marriage Should end. But I know in India Marriages are arranged , right? The family decide , Then you marry and perhaps you fall in love. For me I Always knew that I would Have to choose, either love Or marriage. I choose love. When others think marriage as a happy and Wanted State I see it as a prison!so for me I choose love first and only.No marriage.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
23 Apr 11
My view on marriage I figured out on my own. My mom wasn't a slave to my dad . They were very happy. It is just me! And yes I am religious but that doesn't make me Have to marry. Marriage is for the making of children to me and by age 7 I knew I didn't want kids , so Why marry. Are you saying I Have to marry to have a proper relationship with G-d? He Only speaks or helps married women, Never single ones?
@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
23 Apr 11
Well if your decision is under influence what taught to you than its ok but I think in State people also strong believer of religion and marriage is part of every religion, aren't you religious?
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@starlight_starbright (810)
• Philippines
15 Jan 11
I think after marriage would work well. Developed love has stronger foundation that could last a lifetime and unbreakable bond. Marriage entails a huge responsibility followed by responsible parenting to their children. Loving before marriage sometimes fail because couples are not facing responsibilities that they have to comply unlike when you are already married you don't have any choice but to comply and act in conformity of your union as legal husband and wife. Marriage may sometimes test the strength of every couple's relationship and learning it more deeper would be very effective. 
@somnathsen (129)
• India
12 Jan 11
"Love before Marriage or After Marriage this two are succesful.the first sitution is useful when you love a girl and she is being married by you or you are in alove marrige..and the second sitution is capabiale when you done a arrange marrige. as if as where you will had benn love to your wife..because if it is not you are in danger...............
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@somnathsen (129)
• India
12 Jan 11
"Love before Marriage or After Marriage this two are succesful.the first sitution is useful when you love a girl and she is being married by you or you are in alove marrige..and the second sitution is capabiale when you done a arrange marrige. as if as where you will had benn love to your wife..because if it is not you are in danger...............
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