How to be brave in facing life's problems?

@gengeni (3308)
Indonesia
January 11, 2011 3:16am CST
Life is a mystery, full of problems, finished one, come next problem .. on and on ...... so brave and enjoy in life, how do we deal?
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• Indonesia
11 Jan 11
The first positive thinking: who are you dealing with the problem is a small part of life that we live in this world,when one is faced with the problem then when it is God still loves us with the test given. pray and be patient and sincere .. Insha allah you are facing problems that can be resolved with maturity you think
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@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
13 Jan 11
Every human being must talk like that, but the reality would be different if they're having difficulty. As a pastor who gave a talk to others, not necessarily he himself could do what he said.
@the_CHAD (17)
• Philippines
12 Jan 11
No one is... At the most, what people develop is the ability to prepare or avoid problems. The saying like "What won't kill you will only make you stronger", doesn't necessarily mean you become numb if you go through the trials in life. It just simply means you became wiser. Familiar with the saying "bitten once, twice shy"? Just means you've learn to identify a problem from a far so you can avoid it. Don't try to be brave. Sometimes it only means you're getting numb. That can't be good. Just try to be wiser next time. But if push comes to shove, there's preparation.
• Philippines
14 Jan 11
Thank you and I wish you all the best. Though having problems is a part of life, you'd be surprised how much you can influence the problems that will come your way. :)
@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
13 Jan 11
Your words like wise advice, you have to say something I never thought of before. You good.
@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
15 Feb 11
seeing others life misery and see others problem could make us see in a new point of view that there is so many people facing a harder problems than we are facing. i used to do that and that help me out to fight it all
@nakula2009 (2325)
• Indonesia
16 Feb 11
The ins and outs of someone's life is often different from each other. Regardless of what angle we look at life, whether from the point of economic sufficiency, happiness, sorrow, success, education and health etc., always we find the difference. The difference this perspective that puts a person is in a certain position in the structure of society. For example, there are people who just got his battered bicycle, a piece of land with a modest home but consider themselves rich. Conversely, there are people who have this and that but consider themselves poor. Okay, regardless of size where our position today, we are in demand to always be bold and brave in the face of life and simultaneously deal with the problem. Brave means no fear. Tough means not dither, or with a strong passion in the face of things. To foster a sense of daring and toughness in us, then convince yourself that any action we would do it is already true, and surely we will get success. Be sure also to ourselves that there is no problem that can not be resolved. And the last is, as the religious people we must always believe that God is always there with us and ready to help whenever and wherever we are. For that, you draw near to God.
• Philippines
11 Jan 11
Yes, problems are hard to deal with. Some even say money only but when we have financial problems money will not just pop up. But no matter how difficult we still have to trust in God.
@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
13 Jan 11
And apparently, the biggest problem that afflicts all the people around me are financial problems.
@iva75cpb (729)
• Bulgaria
15 Feb 11
Life is really a mystery. Like mine, full of problems all the time. And sometimes, but just sometimes, the positive thinking doesn't help. How about that? Ever since last May my life turned upside down after my mother-in-law passed away. So suddenly, as if she was stolen from us. After that my employer stopped paying salaries. Crisis, he said. How do you survive several months with a four your old child with no income at all? My husband and I work for the same company. No salary for me, no salary for him, too. After that, our daughter got sick, on Christmas Eve. Chicken pox. Not a serious illness, though, IF you have the finances to fight it. And now, for two months, we've been on an unpaid leave. Waiting to be fired due to lack of work. The only income we have is several dollars from the net. No vacancies available - it's the crisis again. Unemployment all over the country. How does the positive thinking help in this case?
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
15 Jan 11
hi, life is full of obstacles and problems, every where you are. i could be brave because i still want to be happy. problems are only way to make our self strong and a way to pursue our dreams in life.
• Philippines
15 Feb 11
Fear is learned Almost everyone is now familiar with the experiment Pavlov has done with the dog which involved ringing a bell whenever food is presented to the dog and then ringing the bell without bringing the food. When the bell was rang without the food the dog salivated too because it associated the bell sound with eating. This is called classical conditioning or the association of two events together in such a way that one of them reminds you of the other. Another experiment was done on a small child by introducing a rat and playing a certain scary sound each time the rat was introduced. After few times the kid started to fear the rat even though it had no problems in dealing with it before. How to be brave We are not born with our fears but we learn them along the way in our lives. When the experiments continued it was found that ringing the bell alone without bringing the food to the dog many times resulted in the breaking of the association between the two events. This means that if one event kept happening alone many times without the other then the association between them will be broken. So how can this help you be brave? This means that if you managed to face your feared situations without experiencing intense fear then the association will be broken and you won’t feel afraid when facing the same situation again