I haven't done wrong to her but I don't understand why she blames me?

Girl, I think in this situation, you have to talk to her face to face and tell her that whatever crap she heard wasn't true. And after that if believes you and you've said your sorrys, thats cool. But if she doesn't then move on. You dont need a friend like that.

I think you're the only who can answer it. Check into your heart most deeply, because the heart will never tell lies. Listen to your heart, then you will find all the truth in it, then invite your friends to speak from heart to heart. I'm sure there will be no understandings and problems can be solved

hello Bianca, That happens already. So,yes,you need to explain your side to your friend. Now,if she don't believed you..it's not your fault anymore. Don't get affected too much. Just show your friend that you are innocent. Just tell her that you have nothing to do with the rumors and whoever started the gossips is not you. That's it.... What matters now is that,you've done your part...and you are not guilty. Have a good day

Hi, If I am in your place, first, I will tell her that I would like to meet her personally. Or tell her that do she have some time to have a personal talk. If she oks with it, call her and find a better place where you can spend 1-2 hrs. and if you wish to tell the real fact and truth, you start with and openly tell her what really happened. If you really made a mistake or she feel that certain part of your dealings were not appropriate, please apologize for it. If you both are good friends, she will agree for it and you can clear the mis-undemanding among you both. After your request, if she is still not willing to listen to you, ignore, that would be the next step in this regard. Unless you both had not a direct talk, you cannot clear the position and your stand. It can be a communication gap and once you talk to her openly, the problem can be easily resolved and keep your friendship for ever. Best of luck, Thank-s

Like what I said earlier today in another discussion, communication is key. The fact is, you don't have to explain yourself to her since it sounds like she's being narrow minded and doesn't listen the other side of the story. But, for your own good, if you see a chance to talk with her, go ahead. Tell her she got all the wrong information. You know it yourself what you did and it's up to her if she believes it or not. There's only One witness and you know Who. The most important thing is that you've done your part. If she believes you or not, don't be bothered by it. If she's really your friend, she will broaden her mind and think things over.

Confronting her now may worsen the situation. Why not let her cool down and give her enough time to think about it. Don't pay attentions to rumors and what others has to say. Just be firm on what you had believed in. If she makes the first move to settle it with you, have mutual friends who know the truth to talk it out with both of you. Don't let side-siding rules the confrontations.

jesus..that sounds like an ex-friend's wife (notice i said ex). this woman just waited to find fault in me,and accusing me of crazy stuff that just made me drop my mouth in shock. just walk away.you cannot reason with people like that.they're suspicious by nature.

Hi. Bianca_mergillano. I think that you should explain to your friend's that the things that they have thought that you said about them, is not true. Where are they EXACTLY hearing these rumors about you from? Why do they believe these rumors without asking you the truth? Real friends don't just believe anything and everything that they always here. Even if they have any indication that it could be true, it still would be fair unto you, if they came and asked you, instead of just believing what they have heard.

Hi Bianca! Don't worry, but i think you should ask her why that she is doing that thing to you like that, and you should explain to her what is the real things happen, if you want your friendship getting better, i think you should explain to her, and make sure she hear you, it is depend on her whether she accept it or not, but you already tell the truth, so after that it's her decision ... Just don't worry

Just tell her all the truth and only the truth then if she acted the same as still you are blaming well that is the time that you need to stop being friendly with them. It is good to say hi and hello but not stay with them as you r good pal like before. They are not good friend as you are good to them for all reason and no need to explain every thing to her as you were acted like guilty although you have done nothing. Try to avoid them as your closes friends. I guess they are the traitor and not you. If i see you going with them well you ruin your happy single life ever. be happy and find a good circles of friends that you know will help to all yourselves to grow and improve you life as you are now need to move and be a responsible to yourself at least. You are a grown up lady now. Tr to be matured enough and pray that you're mother got a job locally and abroad so the she will help the family and each everyone of you. Don't waste your time to those nonsense things like that and toall those people that has no dreams and goal in life. Go for your own goal to success! Be brave!

I think that same kind of misunderstandings are easy for doing. As example - you say something to someone, he/she understand it as he/she wants to and move on the information to another person rewrite by her/his own ways. If you really didn't talk to anyone, you can tell your friend that during her vacation you've been really busy. You can show her the result of your work while she was away as a proof and you can ask her - do you really believe that i would do it? If someone blame me, i'll just don't pay attention for that. Real friends should talk more about the problems and their own goal has to be to reach the truth. If she doesn't want that and believe that something is because of your fault, why do you have to explain at all? If it's easy for her to blame someone, let her blame whoever she wants to, just tell her that she is wrong in her thinking and if she wants to know more about how all happened, she needs to look for you and ask you directly. Good luck.

hi, in friendship relation, its still need a communication with each other, communications is the most important to all, so i think its better for you to talk with your friend, and clear what you want,tell her the truth is best. and i think she will listen to you.

friend, try to explain everything to her and try your best to convince her. prove to her that you were busy doing ither important things during the days she was off to vacation, you wouuldn't bother doing silly things like that at your busiest times and ofcourse you will never do that to your friends. dude, if they were really your true friends, they will believe in you rather than just hearing rumors from somebody else, right? if they kept on insisting, they never were your friends at the first place. you were true to them, bbut are they doing the same thing to you? do they really TRUST you as their friend? or would they rather listen to anybody than to be at your side? you'll see now whether they really are your friends. cheer up! truth willl always prevail. don't worry. see you around!

these mis understanding between the friends is common,but she had heard some ones words and started hating you,this as a solution.you better enquier what she has heard and from whom,and you bring she/he to in front of your friend and reveal the truth,and tell her it is not your mistake, this will defineatly works i promise.