what could you do?
@xiaoanorincess (237)
China
January 11, 2011 8:15am CST
I have heard that when many lovers broke up with each other,they will never be friend any more,they will avoid the occasion to come across each other,because it will make them feel embarassment?so what about you,if you broke up with your bf/gf,would you be good friend ?
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6 responses
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
11 Jan 11
When you break up with someone, there will be feelings of anger and resentment. It may be difficult to be around that person anymore. It is just easier not to be seen in the same places. we shouldn't say we will never see that person again as a friend or go to the same places that they do. Life has a funny way of changing thosse feelings and moments for us.@xiaoanorincess (237)
• China
12 Jan 11
yeah,exactly!time will change everything and cure everything!so just let everything as it comes!enjoy and thanks for what god have given!
have a good day!
@sardonyx777 (450)
• Philippines
11 Jan 11
Hello,
In my case, i remained as a friend to one but some i never heard or saw them after. With this one i mentioned, we still go out for lunch but with our one common friend but if shes not around i wont go with him alone.
Blessed are those who have happy heart!
Happy mylotting!!
@xiaoanorincess (237)
• China
12 Jan 11
it's happy thing for you to remain a good relationship with your ex-boyfriend,just go ahead,it's better to be have a friend than have a enermy!
good luck!
@EdnaReyes (2622)
• Philippines
14 Jan 11
After the breakups specially if it's been a bitter one, being friends is impossible. If your breakup is friendly then friendship is not that deep also. There's this feeling of feeling lost, so if ever you'll meet again, since the feeling is lost, you can't stand each other. I myself not believe, ex lovers can be of good friends after the break up. For sometimes, when all bitterness is over then I think the friendship will be back but after a long long time, I guess!
@juniorstringbean08 (455)
• Philippines
11 Jan 11
it depends. i can consider making friends with an ex-partner if we broke up reasonably, like we just needed to separate ways because of priorities, family, or time, stuff like that. but i will never make friends with them if i know for myself we had bad memories from the past, like breaking up for some terrible reasons like having been cheated on, and the like. i'm a fair person, and i make things just, and i always give what's due to any person. even when it comes to relationships. :) see you around dude.
@xiaoanorincess (237)
• China
12 Jan 11
tanks for your replying!yeah,if we both remain a good feeling for each,we may not feel embarassment after we broke up with each other!sometime a couple broke up don't beacause they don't love each other but for having no choice!
anyway,goo luck!
@celeste2224 (160)
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
I have been friends with my exs until now, I think it only takes bounds within yourself and your partner if you dont befriend your exs, My partner is open with it so I guess that makes a big difference too, they are still my friends in facebook, and once in a while we still talk over the phone and meet with families so I guess that really depends on how one handle the situation and how your partner handles it too.
@celeste2224 (160)
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
I have been friens with my exs until now, I think it only takes bounds within yourself and your partner if you dont befriend your exs, My partner is open with it so I guess that makes a big difference too, they are still my friends in facebook, and once in a while we still talk over the phone and meet with families so I guess that really depends on how one handle the situation and how your partner handles it too.
