do you get angry when your lover doesn't say sorry for mistake?
By srinivas2036
@srinivas2036 (188)
India
January 12, 2011 6:13am CST
hi friends...
Well when you are loving somebody , do you take it easy all the things simple. When your partner does a mistake.
Do you expect a sorry ? do you feel angry if she doesn't say sorry to you? how do you feel...??/
4 responses
@toniganzon (72532)
• Philippines
12 Jan 11
I do feel mad when my husband made a mistake and what makes more mad is not admitting it or apologizing at all. I could never sleep without being able to settle what we have argued and I think that I deserve to hear an apology.
Without an apology i will never speak to him again, but the apology should be a sincere one and should not come from the nose but from his heart!
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@aprilsong (1884)
• China
13 Jan 11
I think a man maybe be shy to apology openly, but he can use more implicit means. If only he does it from his heart, he deserves forgiveness.
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
13 Jan 11
Maybe. In my boyfriend's case, though I'm the one who's wrong, he's the one asking for forgiveness. I don't know why he's like that but I find it irritating at times. It's like I find no challenge in our relationship except that we're experiencing a long distance relationship.
@Jotomy (6322)
• India
12 Jan 11
Hi srinivas, yes i do take things simple and normal, because we can't insist them to tell us sorry we also know that their feelings why we have to expect sorry from them. Some people may feel shy to say sorry for their mistakes and some people will openly agree their mistakes. But if we love them really then no question of expecting sorry from her/him. You know one thing, love will forgive all the mistakes of your beloved ones, that is true love, understanding them and moving with them is a great thing without expecting even sorry or thanks or anything.
Have a nice day.
@lady_di1210 (263)
• Philippines
12 Jan 11
I do get disappointed when my boyfriend commits mistakes that involves our relationship. I take it one at a time. If he doesn't know that he has hurt my feelings I always let him know. The good thing is he always say sorry when he has done something wrong. It's healthy when you're both open to each other. You both have to swallow up your pride so saying sorry won't be that hard. And accepting sorry can make you both feel better.