Does Everything actually happens for our own good??

hi, i had many failures in my life, but i will still go on, still have faith and believe that it will turn to normal, maybe you are only in the time of test, a test for your ability, faith and hoping. everything will be ok.

Maybe you don't understand. It's not what you are getting that counts. It's what you are giving. So you have a run of failure, GREAT!!! More is learned through failure than anything else. You have learned what not to do. Every really successful person has a belly full of failure in the past. They learned from it and moved on. If your failure has stepped on a few toes, well, it happens. Go to them with unconditional love and understanding. When we GIVE unconditional love and understanding, it usually returns. No matter what others do, give them unconditional love and understanding. What a person believes is often what a person becomes. Let's no longer value hurt,hate,doom,gloom, and all the negative things. You are a very special person. There is no one in the universe exactly like you. You are special. This world needs you!!! That's why you are here!!! You will make this world better as only you can do. Life is about living. Let's move forward. Success is within your reach. Help everyone along your way. Yes, the sun is shining!!

Welcome to mylot family jimmy! It is said that 'failures are pillars of success'. I know that failures could break one's heart and make her/him so disappointed that s/he does not feel like re-surfacing. But one needs to rise like a phoenix. Failures are part of life and one should not feel deterred by failures. Please do not feel dishearted by sudden down developments, have faith in yourself and say to yourself - 'you can do it' and you will be able to cope up with the pressure. All the best.

i will go back and ask those people to be my support system once again. if i go through that failure spree right now then clearly there are no other people who can help me bring back the smile other than the ones who love me. they love me so there is no reason for them not to help me during my failure spree. wish you the best pal. =)

I too am in the middle of a failure spree. I say in the middle because I see no end in sight yet. But I have to keep going and try to hold my head up. This is not easy. But try to take one day or one hour at a time and know that there are people out there in worse shape than we are. It does seem to help to think of others less fortunate than myself. I know that sounds like a cliche. But trust me this is not the first time I have been here. And somehow it does get better. Just when I truly believe that it is more than I can bear a small window opens and allows a spot of sunshine in. Hold your head high and know that you are a good person and this is just a learning and growing process to make you even stronger for what life holds in store for you.