difficult to be nice to rude people

Hi tigeraunt, When hurt or sentimental over some issues, the most common thing is to react and react with ill temperament. Violence can never be a weapon against violence. If you look into world history you would not find any violence having an upper-hand over the civilized existence oh human beings. Gandhi brought freedom to India with his non violence and therefore we are a free Nation now. All people are not alike and there are both good and bad men. Those who underestimate you are none the better. One thing we need to keep in mind that if you can be rude I too know how to handle you. The more you become rude to me the more I would love you. Now that I am keeping a cool disposition end therefore we are not having a dual. However in some extreme cases we might need to adopt a little of anger. It threatens the opponents.

It really is difficult to be nice to rude people. I am a kind person but I don't know if one day I'll finally snap. Whoever that rude person is should be better prepared, lol If I am the frontliner, I might try to keep my cool and deal with the person diplomatically and within reason. I haven't really reacted to a rude person with anger but if a certain person crosses the line and is beyond reason, I might act rude to that person to because he/she does not deserve respect from a person trying to be understanding and kind all the time. I've only fought online once with a client who was really unreasonable. He tried contacting me again but hell no. What he did was way beyond I can tolerate and someone needs to stand up to him. Same goes with everyone who is just rude for no reason at all.

The more rude a person is the more polite I become, only my body language tells the true story. I wish I could get past the anger brought on by these people, but I haven't been able to do so. I realize anger hurts only me, in fact rude people are usually so self involved they don't even notice.

As they say.. Kill 'em with kindness! I can't say I follow that to the tee. I also work in customer service.. And it can be really hard not to get an attitude with people who are rude to you, especially over dumb things you can't control. I get an attitude sometimes... But usually I just brush it off and try to resolve their issues instead of apologizing. HA.

Hi! Well to be honest if I encounter someone rude or not nice, I will just be extra nice to them.. It goes one way or the other. It either really annoys them or it makes them rethink their rudeness! I have encountered many rude people during my time here, mainly because I worked in reatail before having children, I was a manager so got the brunt of everyones annoyance! How do you deal with it?

the persons who are rude will be 2 types in relation to us, 1)the persons who is an higher potion like our boss,elders,old people etc... 2)the persons whom we are not familiar with thinking them self as boss for every one. the 1st type are so important to me,no matter how rude they are i will be so polite with them,but if i am the front liner of 2nd type guys i will show the rudeness double of my boss showed on me.

I would respond with my best smile. Nothing beats that smile that can erase the frown lines from my face. Those kind of people who are ill mannered probably have some serious problems.

Hi. tigeraunt. I am so glad that you have asked this question. I am dealing with this issue right now with this older woman. She has been very rude to me from the day that I have met her. She was very angry that her son was kicked off of the bus and kicked out of school. So, she took out her anger on me, my husband and our three kids. She did not even want us to stay for Thanksgiving Day at her house at all. And now, she has been acting really mean to me whenever she gets the chance to. It makes me very upset. Her attitude really stinks and I am not putting up with anymore. At first, I was calm and polite but now, I am fed up with her just treating me any kind of way. She will never apologize for what she has done to me either. She is heartless and she does not have any respect for me or for herself at all. She acts like she hates me, but adores my husband. I allowed this woman to use something that was mines and she overspent $19.19 and she claims that she does not owe me at all. She says that my husband owed her this money. I asked her nicely about the money that she overspent which was mines and she got upset like I cursed her out of something. So therefore, I am no longer going to help her out anymore. She can forget about me doing anymore generous favors for her. She does not deserve my kindness. I don't trust her and she does things that she think is okay. She also thinks that she can just treat me like a dog and think that I am supposed to put up with it. But not! I refuse to be her slave anymore. I have been nothing but kind to this woman when she has shown me nothing but her nasty side. Now this around, I am doing me!

It is difficult to be nice to people who are being rude, but somehow, I generally manage to when the situation arises. I think some people want to get a rise out of someone. How many times have you been angry at someone, even started to gripe them out and they return with a smile? Kind of makes you a little more angry. I think for the most part, people who are being rude just do not understand how to empathize.

People who act rude due to impulse can be forgiven. But some act rude to that extent that the other person is provoked and agitated. We cannot be nice to such person. But if someone wants to insult me i do not care for such person never get angry with them. I may talk about it for sometime and then later forget it. Happy mylotting.

More often than not I simply ignore them, as I would any child, because as I see it they are rude because they are insecure about who they are and need someone else to make that petty person they are feel important. Its not my responsibility to take care of their emotional diapers and refuse to do so..ENJOY!

I literally "LAUGH IN THEIR FACE" saying it back to they while still being polite/respectful to them. And then I say, "I hate to be the MONKEY that pissed U OFF!"

Its really a challenge for you to handle rude and difficult people. So I just steer clear of those people. Its a waste of time and energy spending my time with these people. Its pointless and useless. If you really wont be able to ignore such people, just answer them. One question, one answer.

I would treat them as civil and as cordial as possible. I would not like to give them an incentive to bother me or my disposition just becuase they are upset about some other thing that is not related to me or my purpose with them. However, I can only bear a few minutes of their anger and I might resort to backlash at them for being the target of their anger for no apparent reason.

Hi tiger! I would try to ignore the rude persons, if I have the option to avoid them. If facing them is inevitable, I will deal with such persons coolly and patiently, without losting my temper. I feel that dealing with such persons with humbleness and politeness will not percipitate the matter further.

Hi I treat people how they treat me I have learnt through life its the best way to deal with it.If they are rude I reply with a short sharp response that usually works.

I used to work before in a small company and I really have to deal with difficult and cruel customer through by phone or in actual communication between them. And I must admit I been through the worst kind of attitude from a lot of them yet I face them all with a genuine smile and understanding, after all it's part of my job. Maybe that is one reason I leave my work before because the time has come that I can no longer bear it all in spite of the fact that I am really trying to convince myself that I am good with what I do. Indeed difficult to be nice towards ill mannered people.

I don't find it difficult at all to be nice to rude people. showing them that people don't have to be obnoxious or insulting can put them in teir place. It could even turn their thinking around.

It really is very difficult to be nice to rude people. First because these are persons who can be included in the energy vampire group, they suck your energy with their behavior. My attitude is to avoid such people in some way, especially by not being in there presence at all. This way they will have no chance to be rude with me.

hi! i have had my share of experience with rude and ill-mannered people. Believe me, they are everywhere. everytime i encounter them, i honestly want to be rude as well just to get even. but i am not that kind of person. frontliner or not, i believe it is not right to deal rudeness with rudeness or with another equally bad attitude. when you treat rude people with kindness and politeness, their rudeness somehow subside.