What do you say to a friend who comes over alllllllll the time

be honest with her..tell her you have plans and dont exactly know when so maybe she should call before she comes over to check and see if your busy at the moment..hard to tell someone you care about to stop coming around so often but everyone needs some space

Thats real easy...but then again I'm usually blunt and to the point...just tellem to go home...you want to have some time alone or with your gf/wife...if they truly are your friends...they will understand...if they get offended...too bad...they dont have common courtesy.

I would stop answering the dorr! I Know that is mean, but that is what I would do. I am sure she would start calling ahead if you didn't answer a few times. Also, you can complain to her about someone else who is doing the same thing and she may get the point.

Well since she is your friend still that can be a sticky situation especially if you want to remain friends and not alienate her. First if I was you I would make the rule that she will have to call to see if it is a okay time..because how are you suposed to get romantic with your man if never know when she going to pop up? And maybe tell her that you need to get chores done and you find her being there is distracting. But the one thing i would do is get up early and try to be gone before the time she comes and do that a few days straight or more. If that don't help being blunt has its uses but, it hurts the others feeling badly and yeah they will stay away from you fo awhile but have you thought that maybe this person lives on her relationship with you that is how she makes it through the day? Maybe she is lonely or doesn't have nothing to do. Tell her to get a computer and get on mylot lol that worked for me..lol Seriosly though becareful if you want to continue the relationship.

Honestly i would be just be honest and tell her that you love her coming over but would prefer if she called before hand just incase you are busy or have plans for that day! Whatever you do just try and be nice about it and expect the worst no doubt it will probably really hurt her feelings but i am sure she will understand! I feel sorry for your friend it sounds like she is really lonely!