where to run if your feeling empty and hopeless

I can relate to what you are saying. I myself felt something like that, but the difference is some of the problems, I have, I can tell my sisters about it. That's why it lessens the pain. Sometimes it depends on the problem your sharing. If you felt down because of guys, they'll probably laugh and tell you to move on. So you feel much pain. You can still share some issues with them specially if they feel that your serious and affected about it. Most families are like that, specially if they think that you can solve or your idle about your dilemmas. If you think they really can't understand you and take you seriously, why not try to share your worries to a stranger. Isn't it sometimes it's easier to share what we feel to a person who doesn't know you because he can't judge you.

That is a sad story, and I am sorry. It seems to me you are depressed, and that can be serious. As a Christian, my advice would be...ask God to show you how to escape your sorrow. I don't know if you believe in God but: if you do or don't...throw yourself at His mercy; and ask Him to help you and heal you. Don't give up! Time heals. And there are people here who want to help. All the best.

Hi. When we are sad and feeling lost and alone, we always have the need to be with someone we can share our burdens with. Someone to lighten up the load even for just awhile. Friends are the best source of strength because they seem not to judge and complicate things. They just there to listen. Also,my family can be of help but there are certain things that we can not share with our family. So, we ran to God . To Him we can rant and vent everything I wonder what sort of problems you have that you;ve been getting those reactions from your friends and families? I do hope, though, that you'll feeling a little bit better now...

Hi there! I'm also having problems but don't feel desperate. There is always a way in every problem. Like in a mathematical equations, every problem has a corresponding solution. It can be hard or easy. Like our real problems. There is a solution we just have to find it do our best to overcome it. Right now I'm also having a problem financially. I had a lot of absences in school as of now but I don't want to stop so I'm looking for a job and I have a few days to wait for a training so now, I am mylotting for extra money. Your problem has a solution. Don't feel desperate about it. I was like you before. Its okay, you can cry once. Its normal but we should do something about so that we're not stuck in that situation. If you run empty and hopeless, you can always count on God. He's always there to listen. If he didn't answer your prayers, He has a purpose for you. Maybe He wants whats better for you. Everything happens for a reason. Just think that every problem has a counter part and that is blessing. If you lost something, better things would come. You shouldn't attract a feeling of negativity because it only gets worst. I had a lot of experiences which I would say, "unbelievable" because of all the people in the world, I don't understand why God has chosen me to experience those things and because of those, I'm motivated to do something, I became stronger and more determined. Don't lose hope. There's always a way. You can do it. If you're always like that you'll be ugly? So always be happy okay? :) Happy mylotting!

Welcome to mylot! Here you can share your problems without being judged, discuss just about anything you feel like discussing and will get sound advice! I find it very therapeutic and i highly recommend it. As i have said in one of my responses, anonymity is in some ways a blessing in disguise!! you can say whatever you want t, unload whatsoever has been bothering you and not be worried that somebody is going to show up and say something or do something which might create a difficult situation!!so open up! Allow life to let you live!! happy myloting