Remains the pain

See my friend, Just think once "is problem important to you or person(your lover) important to you?". And Time can do anything, Time can break your silence. "Your heart can send some electromagentic signal(which are invisible) to his heart, true love can win". All the best. Be happy. Keep smiling(when ever you thought about him, bit of smile rises on your face...hahaha, that can break the distance)

First of all, I would like you to read this http://www.bukisa.com/articles/351197_moving-on-after-a-break-up and understand all the phases of break up. What you are feeling inside you is not love. It's just an attachment that you need to get over. The sooner you understand this the easier life will be. You don't need to hate your boyfriend though he really did a hateful thing. You can't get out of depression because you don't want to. You will move on when you'll start having a sincere wish for it. You need to understand that you were never meant for each other. You need to deal with the humiliation as well. You think that you've lost your respect so you're suffering from lack of self esteem. True love never make you feel humiliated, deserted or cheated. Print out the article that I gave you here. Read it every day. Believe me, so far you haven't tried enough. Try harder. Watch yourself get over each of the phases mentioned in that article. Do it now, before it's too late.

that's sad.. :( but good thing your relationship is over now. it wont much if everything's going wrong and you're still committed. it's really hard to forget the past especially the good times. it takes time to get over it, whatever went wrong between you both. in due time, you'll be fine. just keep living. try to engage yourself with some interesting activities. talk to people, friends or not. just keep yourself bury but dont deprive yourself from enough sleep/rest. you can cry but don't make it a habit. if talking about what happened can help, go ahead but don't prolong the story. it wont help.. and smile. even if it hurts but it'll help.. you'll see. ;)

Yes pain is still there when you won't try to forget him and memories are always there when you always back into your sweet memory with him. To help to forget him remember the pain he does to you all the memories that he makes you cry and don't remember those happy moments. Try also to go out and find those friends that gives you happiness not sadness. Go and try to vacations travels. And most important is don't remember him. If there is somebody who courted you why don't give a try to find another. But before anything else again I ask you is he your boyfriend or real partner as a husband? Well if yes as a husband so just relax but as a boyfriend only well try to find a new one. But don't worry every thing will be alright and going smooth for now just relax. You can do it..

i think i can understand your this feeling.because i sometimes miss my ex-boyfriend,but not like your's serious.i donot know how to change this situation too.but i think we can slowly fade from his memory.

That's right you feel the pain. But instead of looking back and holding on, start to let go. I think that's the best you can do.

Your ex-boyfriend hurt you terribly. he dosen't love or care about you. you are a special person, and you don't need him in your life. i understand you still have feelings for him, but it is over. you opened yourself up to him and eventually these feelings for him will fade. you deserve better and YOU will find the man who really loves and cares about you. the best to you.

Hi Krieyszel, I am sorry you are going through this. How long has it been? I understand that you are deeply hurt. Still, he hurt and humiliated you in front of his family. A part of you should be angry enough to want nothing more to do with him. Your last two sentences make me think that you don't want to get over him. You say you are content with him being just a fantasy. I hope this passes for you and that you realize that you deserve the real thing and a guy that loves you back.

Greetings! Girl, you should move on if it brings you pain. There are lots of guys out there. Maybe it happened because someone better is meant for you. Don't lose hope. I also experience the pain of broking up. I think my experience is worst than yours. Don't feel hopeless. There are lots of girls out there who experiences more pain than you. I can relate because I also love a guy now but I don't know how he feels towards me. It hurts every time I see him. I'm crazy crazy for him. Anyway, he's just now a part of your life. Move on. Let him go then if he comes back, then he's yours. Its happy to be single. I've been single for a very long time and I feel so happy but I still miss having a boyfriend but its better to be single because you won't feel pain anymore. In going to a relationship, we couldn't avoid having a problem or breaking up. Its normal. Of all the many couples in this world, only few goes strong for a very long time. If you want to move on, have time for yourself. Treat yourself. Go shopping, make yourself more pretty, do whatever you want. As you go on your way, Maybe Mr. Right will come? :) Be independent, fulfill your dreams. Guys like independent woman. Then you don't know? Maybe he'll come back and run after you? That would be good if you still love him that time. ANYWAY, you can do it. Happy mylotting! :)

Because true love,so severe pain.I had a similar experience.Ihis is normal.To time it right,only time can heal the pain of our hearts.Bless you!

Though it is difficult to forget your love for ex-boyfriend it is necessary for you to look other good things in life.Concentrate on yoga and other actvities and in course of time your pain will fade away.

It takes time to think less of someone whom you loved. You can't forget that person, it is just that you will learn to think less of them in the course of time. But you have to see it this way, if you to were meant to be then he would still be your man. So maybe he was just not the right person for you and you will get a far more better person in your love who truly loves you.