How do I convince myself?

He is the right man for you if you can't stand a day without seeing him. If he shares a nice relationship with you always, then he is the right man. After all those days of knowing him fully well and both your family is in agreement , then he is the right man for you already.

just look at the behavior and properties when not dealing with us / or if we have not maybe you can assess how Which character / nature of what he was originally after the use of reason and your mind whether he is good for you, your family, future and other distinguished . not to judge by feeling .....!. why ......? if the feeling can be turned 180 degrees point.

If you hesitate, then don´t get married until your hesitations are over. Better be safe than sorry. A divorce is painful later so it´pays to wait a little longer for a commitment that should be life long.

It's called syndrome before the wedding. Not only that you've been there. There are also many people who started the marriage with such a giddy feeling. On the one hand we are bound by a commitment to get married, but on the other side of the candidate's spouse was not a truly "perfect" in our eyes. Ideally we are married to people we really want, but do not always match the road takes us in that direction. Only one way to convince yourself, that is keep on going with the intention. Do not look backwards and especially because it would be a bad precedent for your own. The good old days are not easily forgotten, but what does it mean if not reality? Many happy marriage that begins with vertigo. Not a few weddings that begins with cheerful hearts and bells-whistles, ending with the pain. What you should know, marriage is not heaven that we are waiting, but the land that requires us to start with learning.

With this you ask, I'm sure you now do not believe that the same candidate partner. he would be the right man if you give him confidence but if you're not sure what it is today he will not ever be the right person as you would expect,. learn to believe in a way recalls the positive / good memories he has given. do not remember a time when you're fighting. Always think positive

If he treats u right and is there for u then girl dont stress it. he is,right for u. nd if he wasnt god would of sent signs trust me lol

if you are hesitant than I don't think you should take this step. and there's no way to convince yourself. you simply feel it. it's like taking a warm bath...you feel it's good. anyway it's normal to feel nervous cuz after all it's a big step. think about it very weel;) cheers